Dear W, (You will make someone happy)

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Dear W, (You will make someone happy)


We tried and gave it everything that we could but the only thing that was revealed (to us)is that being in a romantic relationship is not for us. 

Thank you for showing me many things: how to love with passion, to never give up, to be more loving, to see things from a different perspective ,and that romance is alive and well. 

You will make a great partner for someone ; however, I am not that person. Because if I were, it wouldn’t be so difficult to be with you. 

It’s been hard to understand and comprehend this notion: how I can love someone so deeply who I believe to be my Soulmate but we can never meet eye-to-eye on the basics. That is why I spent so much time being angry at you; however, I have let go of this anger and open up my heart and my life to you as the dear friend that you have always been to me. 

Whether you want to be my friend or not is your decision but please know that I have no animosity or anger towards you, I only want us to be at peace and our best selves. It didn’t work with each other so, let’s do so with others. However you need my support, I am here. As a friend- not partner.

I still have a lot of love for you and I can’t blame you for being who you are or for the fact that you can’t love me the way that I want to be loved. Because blame is a waste of time, emotions and energy. 

I’m sorry for being so angry and bitter about who you are. I don’t want to change you or have you be anyone else but you. You deserve a great partner who likes you as you are and, so do I. 

I love you, 

Hali.