I am such a firm-believer that where I am is exactly where I meant to be. I have no regrets because I see the past as opportunities for growth to move forward and learn with discernment and intention.

I have always carried the belief that if I have to force something in my life that isn’t fitting into it, there is a reason. It will be revealed to me over time when it is the right time- divine timing.

I have had some recent epiphanies about certain things not working out in the past and it has affirmed how I believe: everything that is for me will come to me at the right time.

Here are 9 best things that never happened to me:

1. Being married twice.

2. Starting a family with an ex.

3. Working in journalism.

4. Becoming a lawyer.

5. Fake friendships.

6. Moving back to South Africa or Europe.

7. Continuing my career in entertainment.

8. Any former romantic relationship.

9. Staying in New York City.