’Lives fall apart when they need to be rebuilt.’- Iyanla Vanzant.

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3 Ways that I have healed since I left California.

I am very open about my journey to California that occurred just over four years ago. I felt like I needed some more Sun, health and easy-living in comparison to New York. While I will always have The New Yorker hustle inside of me, I have concluded that life doesn’t have to be so expensive and challenging.

So when I moved to California, I felt a sense of relief because it was what I needed at that time until it wasn’t anymore and I decided to leave. I left Los Angeles in December of last year for freedom, the space to breathe and to build a better future for myself and, I do not regret it.

Here are 3 ways that I have healed since leaving Los Angeles:

1. Leaving Hollywood behind.

When I lived in Los Angeles, I was immersed in the ‘Hollywood’ lifestyle and a lot of what I did was centered around that area, most of my yoga students were celebrities or people attached to them. And although many of them mean well, it can be a very shallow sense of self.

After my first relationship with someone famous, I saw through the facade of most friendships and acquaintances that I had as a lot of them were attached to me because of who I was dating and what they could get from me.

It is pleasant to live in a place where people want to know you for who you are. A feeling that I haven’t felt in a while.

2. Feeling safe in my home and my neighborhood.

As much as people will harp on about not needing to feel safe to be at peace. Safety, particularly as a woman, means a lot to me.

My last few months in Los Angeles were a struggle. I felt the most unsafe that I have ever felt and while I won’t get into politics, I am disappointed that it has come down to people fearing their lives. I stopped hiking and doing any outdoor activities due to the lack of safety.

Many spiritual Gurus will claim that fear is not real and a figment of our imagination. However, I disagree. Some of it can be real and is a call for us to learn to differentiate what is for safety and what has been fabricated from our internal subconscious’ manifestations.

3. Letting go of the past.

I moved to Los Angeles to teach yoga and to heal and once I had decided to no longer teach yoga, I felt it time to move on with my life.

Although leaving Los Angeles was one of the nest decisions that I ever made, I was still sad and emotional about it because it had become my temporary home.

However, my necessity for healing, safety and growth overrode any fond memories that I had of California. And when I left, I was very glad that I did. Both can be true: I loved California when I moved there and I still loved it when I left it. But, I am also glad that I have moved on with my life.

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'Endings and beginnings coincide with April’s new moon - the first new moon of the new zodiac year.' New Moon in Aries by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

SYDNEY: 5:24 pm, April 1st

LONDON: 7:24 am, April 1st

NEW YORK: 2:24 am, April 1st

LOS ANGELES: 11:24 pm, May 31st

PERTH: 2:24 pm, April 1st

Endings and beginnings coincide with April’s new moon - the first new moon of the new zodiac year.

Mars, La Luna’s ruler, and Saturn are closing in on each other, cutting ties with something or someone holding you back from reaching your full potential. But this dynamic duo isn’t about to go quietly! Because Mercury, the communication planet, is in the same sign as the new moon, and Aries says what it means and means what it says - no holds barred.

One door must close before another one opens. And sometimes, doors don't close properly - they get jammed, fall off their hinges and creak loudly. This is when April's new moon steps in to say what needs to be said, allowing you to close the door properly behind you and step over the threshold into a shiny new future.

Yet Mercury's spit-fire tongue tempts you to speak your mind, minus the sugar-coating. And while direct, honest communication is the way to go during this new moon, be mindful of the words that spill from your mouth. You'll be itching to blurt out what everyone else is too afraid to say, and while telling it like it feels great in the moment, there's a real danger of regret if you go too far. Speaking without thinking could cause unnecessary upset and divide you from your true purpose. So, stick to the topic, avoid getting caught up in personal assaults or vicious slander, and just make your point.

Your new beginning awaits once all is said and done (hopefully without any verbal casualties). This may manifest as an updated attitude, improved wellness, an exciting new career path, a new love interest or the revival of a new chapter in an existing relationship. It will be what you need and not necessarily what you want, but trust that it’s in the best interest of your personal evolution.

This lunation encourages speaking up for yourself and asserting your independent views. Say what’s on your mind knowing that April’s new moon is cheering you on from the sidelines. Dish out your opinions straight up, but don't lose your humanness in your quest for truth or stone-cold facts. And before speaking with #nofilter, ask yourself; is this comment aligned with the person I want to be?

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

• Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

• American Federation of Astrologers

• Federation of Australian Astrologer

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'Tell yourself that you can and will smash ceilings.' Full Moon in Virgo by Astrologer, Natasha Weber

SYDNEY: 6:17 pm, March 18

NEW YORK: 3:17 am, March 18

LONDON: 7:17 am, March 18

LOS ANGELES: 12:17 am, March 18

PERTH: 3:17 pm, March 18

This is the last full Moon of the astrological year.

Because La Luna is wrapping things up a few days before the new astrological year kicks off, on March 21, there’s a huge sense of anticipation in the air.

You’d be forgiven for feeling overwhelmed by the choices that lay before you. This way or that? After all, Jupiter, the planet of plenty, is gearing up for its once-in-a-lifetime connection with Neptune, directly opposite the full Moon. But the point is, you have the power of choice. And although change is inevitable, the type of twists and turns you experience will boil down to the decisions you make during March's full Moon.

So, now that you’re woke, which direction will you take? Because sometimes, the right choice can be as clear as mud.

Jupiter and Neptune’s upcoming meet-up is magical. The new astrological year promises to make the impossible possible, so trust in that. And scrap limiting beliefs, especially if they hold you back from reaching your most magnificent potential.

This full Moon in Virgo wants you to make meaning out of mayhem. But first, you must adopt a can-do attitude. Virgo loves routine, order and making sense out of everything. Use those qualities to slay your dreams, and don’t let the shadow side of Virgo - with its hypercritical tone - tell you otherwise.

Keep a positive mindset on track with powerful affirmations and write a checklist of lofty goals. Tell yourself that you can and will smash ceilings. That you deserve abundance. That you will find the big love. Anything and everything is possible during this full Moon, so rewrite a killer narrative and start the new astrological year believing that the sky’s the limit.

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

• Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

• American Federation of Astrologers

• Federation of Australian Astrologer

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'La Luna in Pisces longs for world peace in a utopian universe.' New Moon in Pisces by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

NEW MOON IN PISCES

SYDNEY: 4:34 am, March 3rd

NEW YORK: 12:34 pm, March 2nd

LONDON: 5:34 pm, March 2nd

LOS ANGELES: 9:34 am, March 2nd

PERTH: 1:34 am, March 3rd

A new moon of big dreams, where anything and everything is possible.

March’s new moon is in Pisces, the sign that rules creativity, artistry, intuition, fantasy, magic, imagination, movie stars, illusion, spirituality and transcendence. But above all, Pisces is deeply compassionate and wants desperately to rescue the world from its woes.

La Luna in Pisces longs for world peace in a utopian universe.

Both Pisces' traditional and modern planetary rulers, Jupiter and Neptune, are edging towards a once-in-a-lifetime union in their home sign. When they get together, these two planets wield cosmic magic, making this an excellent time to set intentions and practice your favourite manifestation technique. And for extra manifesting oomph, create an inspiring vision board during this new moon. Still, idealism without action is simply wasted good intention.

But this lunation isn’t airy-fairy - it’s got a celestial bite!

As La Luna and the Sun meet in our skies to begin a brand-new cycle, warring Mars meets powerhouse Pluto. And here’s the twist: these planetary heavyweights pack a punch and are often associated with superhuman effort and extraordinary force. Yet you can use the contradictory new moon vibe to your advantage.

The trick is not to expect your problems to disappear without any effort on your part. A much better idea would be to put some elbow grease into what you want to change in your life. Because with a bit of grit and determination, you become empowered to make the necessary changes to foster smoother relationships, create a more rewarding professional path and elevate your health and happiness.

This new moon grants a miracle - but Mars and Pluto want you to work for it. And if you’re up for the challenge, this lunation could literally transform your life.

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

• Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

• American Federation of Astrologers

• Federation of Australian Astrologer

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'Is it ever okay to be selfish?' Full Moon in Leo by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

SYDNEY: 3:56 am, February 17th

NEW YORK: 11:36 am, February 16th

LONDON: 4:36 pm, February 16th

LOS ANGELES: 8:36 am, February 16th

PERTH: 12:36 am, February 17th

The upcoming full Moon creates a push-pull dynamic between self and the collective. And you might ask; why you should sacrifice - money, time, ambition, leisure - for the benefit of the greater good? Is it ever okay to be selfish?

La Luna in Leo points out that your needs are just as important as anyone else's. You have the right to pursue what makes you happy, so go ahead and fill your own cup even if that means someone else’s cup stays bone dry.

Because the harsh reality is not everyone can win first prize, nor is life always fair and equal. And yes, that’s a sad fact. But February’s lunation green-lights your path towards happiness minus the guilt trip, so you can either put yourself front and centre or step aside and let someone else steal your thunder. Of course, you needn’t ruthlessly step on someone else’s toes to get to where you want to go. Just make sure you give yourself the best possible chance because this month, La Luna favours the bold.

However, don’t be surprised if the Aquarian Sun puts you in a position where you feel compelled to defend your choices or explain your actions, especially if they differ from the crowd or are out of character. Naturally, it's important to consider other people's opinions and demands. But when it comes to February's full Moon, your personal desires, beliefs, and wishes come up trumps.

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

• Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

• American Federation of Astrologers

• Federation of Australian Astrologer

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3 Ways that we can heal as a collective.

It is very clear that as a whole, we need to raise the vibration of the collective consciousness. You might have heard this before and wonder what it means. In simple terms, we resonate energetically through vibrations and the lower or higher they are, have an impact on our moods, bodies and general well-being.

It has been scientifically and spiritually-proven that the higher our vibrations are, the more positive we feel and are able to heal mentally & physically.

I used to think that it was about healing as many people as I could but over time, I have learned that I am the only that I can heal. I am responsible for my life and what I choose to put out into The World. And, of course, it’s not always to think like this but we must always try. For no one else but ourselves.

Here are 3 ways that we can heal the collective consciousness:

1. Self-forgiveness.

When I learned the power of forgiveness, it changed my life. I finally got to understand that we don’t have to keep re-creating the past in our heads. That we have the power to set ourselves free from the shackles of guilt and the past.

Although forgiveness is rewarding, we often forget that the most beneficial form is self- forgiveness. Letting go of the hurt we have cause ourselves and others to make space for healing and serenity is a huge prize that many of us have not experienced.

A great teacher of mine, Dr. Wayne Dyer used to say, ‘Feeling guilt will not do anything’. That is why we need to forgive ourselves because, as another phenomenal teacher of mine said, ‘Once we know better, we do better.’

2. By eating mindfully.

Although I was once a self-righteous vegan, I understand that it doesn’t suit my body and something like that cannot be forced. So now, instead of forcing myself to be healthy defined by a label; I do so by listening to the response my body gives me.

Health is not only about exercise and movement but also what is going into our bodies. There is a huge difference in the kind of energy we receive from different foods and this plays a role in the energy we contribute to the collective.

While it is important to notice how we receive our energy, it is also equally significant to not judge ourselves in order to ‘get it right’ because that is negative energy, too.

3. By forgiving others.

None of us are perfect and as the world becomes more divided, I see a lot of judgement, lack of understanding and condescending attitudes openly being expressed to one another.

It is vital to remember that we are human and in this experience, we are not meant to get it all right. So, we must make space for others to make mistakes and learn.

It’s time for us to drop the need to hold others to an unattainable goal with our harsh judgments and expectations through forgiveness or distancing ourselves from those who may be harmful.

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3 Crystals to enhance your intuition.

Throughout my life, crystals have had a significant role on my spiritual journey. I grew up with them in my house and being interested in their metaphysical and spiritual characteristics.

So, when I began my adult spiritual journey, crystals played a huge role in my healing process. Yes, there are some that heal and others that do many other things. However, understanding them (to me) has been less about a scientific way; rather a spiritual one.

None of this article is scientific. This is about spirituality.

Here are 3 crystals that can help enhance your intuition:

1. Selenite.

A clear crystal which often comes in a wand form has been known for centuries by psychics and those who wish to open up their third eye.

I, myself, sleep with it under my pillow when I am seeking answers to a question that I think archangels and the divine can help me answer.

If you want to be more intuitively inclined, I highly recommend using it yourself, too.

2. Amethyst

My birth stone and a Crystal known for its intuitive properties is, Amethyst. Usually found in a purple/lavender color.

I have naturally always kept this crystal close to me (because it is my birthstone) and I believe it is one of the reasons that I have been intuitively inclined.

To enhance your intuition, keep this charged crystal around you when you sleep and focus on your third eye before you drift off.

3. Citrine

This crystal is usually a variation of yellow and is helpful to enhance your intuition. It is the birthstone of November and also has healing properties.

There was a time in my life when I saw the number 1111 a lot and would keep a pendant of this crystal around my neck. It helped guide me to manifesting and fine tune that inner voice that acknowledges and knows what is best for my highest good.

*Before you work with crystals or enhance your intuition, do so with care and awareness.

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'Trust that you know what’s right for you and what’s gotta go' New Moon in Aquarius by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

SYDNEY: 4:46 pm, February 1st

NEW YORK: 12:46 am, February 1st

LONDON: 5:46 am, February 1st

LOS ANGELES: 9:46 pm, January 31st

PERTH: 1:46 pm, February 1st

This is a new Moon of surprise revelations and unexpected twists and turns - so prepare for change. February’s new Moon in Aquarius explores uncharted territories, tempting you to conquer brand-new frontiers as you explore lush green pastures. Yet, abandoning your cosy comfort zone for the promise of something new and shiny proves challenging if you insist on clinging to worn-out old patterns. Suffice it to say that turning your back on what feels safe and secure will feel a lot like pulling your fingernails off, one by one. Trust me, you won’t want to do it, no matter how stuck you are in a rut. But if your happy place has morphed into a job, person, habit or mindset that’s holding you back from reaching your highest potential. Or worse, sucking the joie de vivre right out of you, La Luna can rid you of this parasitic vibe if you’re willing to play your part too.

From now until the next new Moon, do something wildly radical! February’s new Moon is ruled by electric Uranus. And because the rebellious planet is travelling through traditional Taurus right now - the sign of tradition, custom and routine - you will get some push back when you attempt to reset.

Trust that you know what’s right for you and what’s gotta go. And then, be brave and step boldly towards a revolutionary new direction.

Self-disciplined Saturn adds to this new Moon's story, supporting you through the separation process as you walk away from whatever’s past its use-by-date. From now on, it's onwards and upwards.

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

• Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

• American Federation of Astrologers

• Federation of Australian Astrologer

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3 Things that I always want to remember.

I am approaching my thirty-third birthday and I have a good feeling about this year. A well-known Guru, Sadghuru, said that when we hit the age of thirty-three that things start to manifest at a higher rate if we are on the right path and that, I feel strongly.

While I do feel like the past two years of my lift were wasted, I learned many lessons that are irreplaceable and sometimes it takes feeling like life has paused to be forced to slow down and process emotions and things that I was too afraid to before.

Throughout my life, I have learned a lot and of course, it is hard to narrow it down to just 3 things but here are some simple things that I always want to remember:

1. Everyone deserves to have an opinion.

We are experiencing a mass awakening and some people will come along while others will be too stubborn to open up their minds and live to in a new reality. I am not talking about a world where we shut one another down; however, the opposite. We are entering the age of Aquarius where all opinions matter.

As an Aquarius, I make sure to hear people out and to listen to where people are coming from. I don’t always get it right but I make an effort to try.

This is the era of being open-minded and expansive. No more black and white thinking, this is about seeing things from a different perspective.

2. Life is about lessons and blessings.

Every time I think about where I have come from, I am grateful. Of course, I have the gratitude of living in The USA, where I think most people take it for granted but this country is about reinvention and innovation.

I have rebuilt my career many times and as I do so again, I am grateful for the opportunity to. But as I do, I keep in mind that life is about learning and being grateful for the fact that I am here to breathe, live and make my dreams come true.

3. I am not the ultimate judge.

It can sometimes feel like judging people means that we care about them. Like if someone doesn’t do what we like, we can tell them they are wrong. However, there is a difference between suggesting to someone and enforcing your beliefs on them.

With love comes a form of acceptance that encourages and doesn’t judge.

I have come a long way with this and used to think that judging meant that I loved that person until I noticed that they didn’t feel comfortable around me to be themselves. If I wouldn’t want someone to watch and critique my every move, then I shouldn’t do it to others. People deserve the freedom to make their own decisions without the un-necessary peanut gallery.

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'Kick (something soft), punch your pillow and scream out loud.' Full Moon in Cancer by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

SYDNEY: 10:48 am, January 18th

NEW YORK: 6:48 pm, January 17th

LONDON: 11:48 pm, January 17th

LOS ANGELES: 3:48 pm, January 17th

PERTH: 7:48 am, January 18th

January’s full Moon promises lasting transformation that's born from your limits being tried and tested. You know that growing sensation inside your belly when something feels off? It starts as a small inkling and erupts into a full-blown tantrum when you finally hit the wall. If this is where you’re at, know that all is not lost. La Luna’s link with intense Pluto will try to push your buttons, but if you find an outlet for your emotions, you will get to the other side feeling brand new.

Kick (something soft), punch your pillow and scream out loud. Cry. A lot. If you prefer a release with a bit more style, then sing at the top of your lungs. Make up a song that expresses exactly how you feel and let it rip! The lyrics don't have to make sense if your pent-up emotions are placated. For four days following this full Moon, acknowledge anger, talk about rejection and delve into despair, so you can finally heal the hurt.

La Luna is at its ripest in Cancer, the most emotive sign of the zodiac, so honouring your feelings is paramount. Expect sentimental memories to arise during this full Moon, and trust that it's okay to sit with them for a while. Even though the Capricorn Sun attempts to hold it all together, don't put a stopper on your feels.

Once you've surfed your personal emotional wave, victory looks like this; suddenly, you don't care what your ex thinks, does or says. Not because they have changed, but because you have. People you've given your personal power to melt away as you reclaim that piece of yourself that you sold off too cheaply. That job you lost? You realise that brighter opportunities await, and that makes you feel excited.

And sure, some clouds are void of a silver lining, no matter how hard you try to find one. In this case, La Luna encourages you to grieve, throw your best tanty and then let it all go.

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

• Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

• American Federation of Astrologers

• Federation of Australian Astrologer

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9 Affirmations for The New Year.

There is something so powerful about a new year, When Earth rotates around the sun for another 365 days. Sometimes this power can feel overwhelming and like it will be over before we know it.

So, I believe we need to harness this energy and manifest it into something positive. I’m not into resolutions but I do have some goals that I hope to accomplish this year.

With that being said, it is important to remember that we are all human and yes, we can put our all into it but it is also about living life each day, one step-at-a-time.

Here are 9 Affirmations for the new Year of 2022:

1. I am present.

2. I am grateful to live through another year.

3. I attract what I need to, to be at my highest self.

4. I embrace life to the fullest.

5. I manifest with love and abundance.

6. I set my goals and work hard towards them, keeping in mind that they can change.

7. I open myself up to people and things for the highest Good.

8. I live and love fully.

9. I am open to lessons and blessings.

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'Of course, you can still have your new beginning, darling.' New Moon in Capricorn by Astrologer, Natasha Weber

SYDNEY: 5:34 am, January 3rd

NEW YORK: 1:34 pm, January 2nd

LOS ANGELES: 10:34 am, January 2nd

LONDON: 6:34 pm, January 2nd

PERTH: 2:34 am, January 3rd

The first new Moon of 2022 is in earthy Capricorn, a sign synonymous with grit, perseverance and a no-frills approach to life. Couple that with Venus’ retrograde in the same sign, and you get a down-to-earth mood that just wants to get on with things minus any fuss or fanfare.

Right now, the collective vibe is more than a little fed up with the rigmarole of the past, so racing into a brand-new year filled with fresh hope seems like a great idea, right? You’d be forgiven for wanting to pretend that some parts of 2021 were nothing more than a bad dream. However, La Luna urges you to reflect, nonetheless. Pluto also adds to the story, asking you to ponder past failings and triumphs. Use what you learnt in 2021 to fortify your resilience as you step into 2022.

Of course, you can still have your new beginning, darling. But take your time. Plan business ventures to a T, outline important courses of action and get to know someone before handing them your heart on a silver platter. Set yourself up for success by ensuring you’ve done your background research. Then these things will last well into the future, rather than being a flash in the pan.

This new moon begs you not to rush into the fresh start you so desperately (and understandably) desire. Go slow instead. That way, you’ll build solid foundations to withstand even the mightiest storm

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

• Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

• American Federation of Astrologers

• Federation of Australian Astrologer

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3 Things that I have learned from living in different cities around The World.

I have just relocated to Miami and I have been asked by many people, what my favorite city is. I haven’t been able to answer this question because right now, of course I will say, Miami. However, I would not be being true to all the lessons and blessings I have received along the way.

God, people and places have been good to me and I can’t just brush that off. I have had the fortune of living in 3 different countries and residing in 5 different big cities. And for that, I will always be grateful.

Here are 3 Things that I have learned from living in different cities in The World:

1. We get what we need when we need it.

A few months ago when I decided to leave Los Angeles, I felt sad about it. A part of me regretted even moving there from New York because what people had told me Los Angeles was, I had come to see for myself. I saw a lot of superficial people, transactional relationships and a scene that depends on who you know or date. This is so not me.

Then I remembered when I first moved to Los Angeles, I felt a sense of safety there. I could do tons of yoga, hike and soak in the sun. I have had to remind myself that just because it was short-lived, it doesn’t mean that I should regret it. It served its purpose, even if it was only four years. California gave so much to me and I will always hold it dearly in my heart.

2. Life is about moving forward.

I spent most of my twenties in New York City, hustling and bustling. And as someone who is nostalgic and sentimental, I have memories that take me right back to walking down Broadway or taking the bus down Empire Boulevard past Eastern Parkway during The Fall. Remembering smells and scents that take me back ten years ago can feel painful sometimes.

During the lockdowns, I fell into a depression and sometimes it was hard to see any light but I kept my hope. Focusing on being present daily helped me immensely. It put into perspective that while (sometimes the past) seems enticing, it is over and done. I have today to make the most of and I am grateful.

3. Live like you can’t go back.

After having lived in different places, sometimes I catch myself saying that I should’ve done something that I really wanted to in a particular city or place that I didn’t. I’ve had to remind myself that I can’t go back but moving forward, I will live life to the fullest.

Moving forward, I will say yes to that date, I will take that adventurous trip and, I will connect with as many people as possible.

I promise to live life like if I couldn’t go back, I wouldn’t change anything- as much as I can.

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'Bring on party season!' Full Moon in Gemini by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

SYDNEY: 3:35 pm, December 19th

NEW YORK: 11:35 pm, December 18th

LONDON: 4:35 am, December 19th

LOS ANGELES: 8:35 pm, December 18th

PERTH: 12:35 pm, December 19th

December’s full Moon is busy busy busy, in social butterfly Gemini. As you cram everything you missed out on over the past year into the next month. Bring on party season! Your social media platforms overflow with exciting invitations and the promise of catchups with long-lost friends and loved ones. Just be sure to pace yourself because Jupiter’s link with this full Moon suggests the likelihood of overdoing things and winding up exhausted. By contrast, some of you may really want to let your hair down, but something is holding you back.

The Moon in Gemini craves human connection but be warned; the talkative sign wants to get everything off your chest, including things that are better kept to yourself. You'll be tempted to overshare during this full Moon. Honest communication is encouraged; however, it’s wise to be discerning about who you open up to. You may be genuinely expressing a valid concern, thought, or sentiment, as the person you’re confiding in starts a chain of Chinese whispers. La Luna in Gemini loves juicy gossip, so don’t throw yourself into the thick of it!

Jupiter’s involvement desperately seeks joy, blissful interactions and a happy-go-lucky festive season. Still, Venus’ retrograde intends to dampen La Luna’s mood.

Venus hits the brakes, travelling backwards through serious Capricorn on the same day that the full Moon peaks. And while this isn’t terrible news, it does add a more sombre, introspective vibe, particularly when it comes to relationships reflections.

So, get out and about and enjoy yourself this festive season - you deserve it! Just don’t over commit or overshare. And when you stop to take a breath, ask yourself if the people you’re partying with are the same people you want by your side in 2022.

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

• Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

• American Federation of Astrologers

• Federation of Australian Astrologer

Hali Tsotetsi 12/6/21 Hali Tsotetsi 12/6/21

3 Warning signs of spiritual narcissists.

A word that I don’t throw around lightly is Narcissist. I feel like it is over-used while many do not know what the fundamental means. Although, I myself, have done lots of research about, I am still learning of many different types and how they show up in my life or in other people’s lives that I encounter.

And, for that reason, I don’t feel comfortable loosely labeling someone that I haven’t mer or see through a television screen as such. However, as a member of the spiritual and wellness community for almost a decade, I have met and encountered many Spiritual Narcissists.

Some have been former friends, a few that I have dated and some that I have taken their class and been caught under their manipulative and abusive wing. I must re-iterate as I always do when I speak about narcissists, all of us have narcissistic tendencies that are an extension of our Ego.

However, most narcissistic personalities want domination and control. They also lack fundamental respect and empathy for what someone else is going through.

It seems shocking that someone who is in the wellness industry would be a narcissist; however, I believe there are way more leaders that are than those who are humble and have genuine intentions behind what they do and why they have chosen to lead to begin with.

Here are 3 Warning signs of Spiritual Narcissists:

1. They claim that there are levels to spirituality.

I once overheard a former yoga teacher of mine say t to another student that she was not as her spiritual awakening and might never be. It felt like I was in a scene from Meangirls with Regina Bush saying that to Gretchen but I was at a yoga studio in Brooklyn, New York City.

I almost wanted to pinch myself to see if it was true or if it was real and it was because other teachers joined the conversation and affirmed the one who had been speaking before.

I noticed in that moment that those who claim to have a hierarchy to spirituality are doing so for domination over another person’s journey. We all go at our own pace and one Spiritual path is not above another’s. If someone makes you feel like that or tells you that in other words, you might want to reconsider being around them- especially in a healing space.

2. They bully students.

I have been practicing Bikram yoga for over ten years and sometimes I wonder why I have continued because it is filled with a lot of Ego and many abusive teachers.

A few years ago, I was practicing in Flatiron, N.Y.C. when I got into a backbend that was more advanced than the rest of the class. The teacher then came over to me and yelled at me to get out. I was so mortified, I couldn’t believe it. She had humiliated me in front of everyone just to tell me to get out of a posture that I had done in many classes before and had been a teacher at that point.

Out of panic, I submitted to her request but stopped taking her class. A few days later, I was in the changing room and noticed two women talking about that same teacher. Describing how she had yelled at a pregnant woman for doing the wrong postures.

It deeply saddens me that this is prevalent in any community, let alone one that is meant to be for healing and attracts vulnerable people. After my extensive research of narcissistic personalities, I learned that they are attracted to places where they can find weak and easily-manipulatable people to feed their Egos and see them as God-like creatures as opposed to human-beings.

Not all teachers mean well and it is okay to walk away from those who bully and berate you instead of leaving a space for you to grow, learn and prosper.

3. They claim to be God.

It may sound preposterous but yes, they claim to be God. They claim to be all-knowing, have all the answers and will not admit that they are learning and working on themselves as much as their students or clients.

Unfortunately, I have encountered many of these and they are more rampant than should be. The biggest sign of this is if they don’t practice spirituality or refuse to humble themselves in any way.

I used to have a former teacher who I noticed changed drastically when he stopped practicing Yoga. He developed mood swings, would yell at students and even call them names before, during and after class. His Ego had gotten to him and no one could tell him otherwise. He had decided that he was God and therefore above us, he made that very clear.

I distanced myself from him and have heard stories of his antics here and there. However, I wonder when the day will come when he will be held accountable for his behavior towards many vulnerable people. I hope that day comes and there is a standard of how spiritual teachers and wellness professionals should conduct themselves. Because the lack of boundaries allows them to get away with unprofessional and emotionally, sometimes physical as well, harmful behavior that doesn’t have to happen.

Hali Tsotetsi 12/2/21 Hali Tsotetsi 12/2/21

'You can expect signs and symbols from the cosmos to lead you towards the most authentic version of yourself'- The New Moon in Sagittarius by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

NEW MOON ECLIPSE IN SAGITTARIUS

SYDNEY: 6:42 pm, December 4th

NEW YORK: 2:42 am, December 4th

LONDON: 7:42 am, December 4th

LOS ANGELES: 11:42 pm, December 3rd

PERTH: 3:42 pm, December 4th

This new Moon has high hopes for humanity. However, with Jupiter, La Luna’s ruler, aligning with forceful Mars, the cosmos suggests that there’s still some work to be done. That said, you’re personally encouraged to raise your hopes and strive for your best life as December's new Moon is hosted by uber optimistic Sagittarius.

Still, this new Moon is also a solar eclipse, making it the last in the Gemini/Sagittarius eclipse series for 2021. And as we move on to Taurus/Scorpio themes in 2022, it’s crucial to put this year’s eclipse message into action – now!

Put simply, the message is this; discover your true North, unlock your passion purpose, and find a life direction that strongly resonates with you. You can expect signs and symbols from the cosmos to lead you towards the most authentic version of yourself. But be warned, eclipses have a way of smacking you over the head if you’re not paying attention.

Tune in to that little voice that asks, “are you on the right path?” If you feel lost, that’s okay, provided you’re open (a Sagittarius favourite) to the challenges and changes that beckon. Embracing a spirit of adventure helps you overcome the inevitable trepidation that accompanies bold moves, so be brave, my loves.

Sure, they’ll be twists and turns and probably a fork in the road. But knowing that your best life awaits makes it all worthwhile. La Luna promises. And if this Sagittarius new Moon is good for anything, it’s keeping its word.

This new Moon eclipse hits home most strongly for these Sun, Moon and Ascendant signs: Sagittarius, Gemini, Virgo and Pisces.

• Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

• American Federation of Astrologers

• Federation of Australian Astrologer

Hali Tsotetsi 11/23/21 Hali Tsotetsi 11/23/21

3 Things I wish I knew before dealing with yoga teachers.

As more time passes, I am more inclined to no longer interact with other Yoga teachers like I used to. Mostly because I haven’t taught it for almost a year and am happy to no longer do so. Although I still practice, the industry itself has become too toxic and harmful for me.

While I am very grateful for every student I met, every teacher that I encountered and every studio that I taught for, I am a lot happier leaving that career behind.

As I look back on my time as a Yoga teacher, I can see clear lessons that I might’ve had more insight on if I had been warned about. Mostly with regards to dealing with studios and teachers. This specific article is dedicated to what I wish I had known when dealing with other Yoga teachers:

1. They (just like you) are not perfect.

I spent my time as a student putting teachers up on a pedestal and treating them as mini-celebrities. Many inspired me to grow and evolve as a person and for that, I am forever grateful.

However, when I became a teacher (myself), I would feel uncomfortable being put on a pedestal like I had previously done to others because I am not above anyone. I, just like everyone else, am learning and growing. So when I encountered teachers who behave as though they are above others, it would be disappointing.

I have seen some teachers abuse students, lie, steal and emotionally abuse people for their own gain. In the beginning, that used to upset me but then I realized that they are human and we are all capable of mistakes and wrongdoings- all of which deserves accountability.

2. They are your colleagues; not your friends.

As with all industries, there is a sense of competition in The Yoga Industry. Some of it is healthy and some of it is toxic. With all competition comes a winner and a loser and, it can be difficult to make friends with people who are competing for the number one spot with you.

When I started teaching Yoga, I felt a need to be kind, loyal and courteous to my colleagues until I realized that it wasn’t being rewarded to me. I noticed that a lot of the ‘kumbaya’ attitude was applied to certain circumstances and not a lifestyle. Which is alright; however, it made me distance myself from a lot and open my eyes to the realization that a lot of the industry is about a facade.

3. Be willing to say no.

I used to teach at the same studio with a particular teacher who would continuously substitute her classes. In fact, sometimes she would teach after me and ask me right after I had come from teaching the class before her.

In the spirit of needing to get along and keep the peace, I would say yes. Until one day, I found myself developing resentment towards her.

I looked at myself and faced the truth that I had not set proper boundaries and decided to do so moving forward even if she retaliated and called me names for doing so. Of course, when I did, she gave me backlash like I expected but that is on her.

There is a sincere lack of boundaries in The Yoga industry and I will only be contributing to it if I allow people to treat me with disrespect when it is not fair to me or anyone else to do so.

Hali Tsotetsi 11/22/21 Hali Tsotetsi 11/22/21

9 Affirmations for the end of the year.

As the year 2021 draws to a close, it’s important for us to stay as present as possible and not get swept up in what the next year can bring.

When I taught yoga, I would always affirm to my students that the end is the most important part of anything because it gives us a chance to live what we preach. It’s easy to be present when things are exciting in the beginning or in the middle when we don’t have to think about the ending.

However, the end forces us to look within us and analyze how we have gotten to where we are and if we are achieved with our outcome before we move on to the beginning again. The end is just as significant as when we start.

Here are 9 affirmations for the end of the year:

1. I am grateful that I get to live.

2. I am present for all the lessons in life.

3. I am open to what I need to learn.

4. I am at peace with the past.

5. I am the last person I want to give up on.

6. I am in alignment with prosperity.

7. I forgive so that I can live fully today.

8. I align myself with the greater good.

9. I believe in the highest good of all.

Hali Tsotetsi 11/18/21 Hali Tsotetsi 11/18/21

'November’s full moon in sensible Taurus comes with a twist'- Full Moon in Taurus by Astrologer, Natasha Weber

FULL MOON IN TAURUS

SYDNEY: 7:58 pm, November 19

NEW YORK: 3:58 am, November 19

LONDON: 8:58 am, November 19

LOS ANGELES: 12:58 am, November 19

November’s full moon in sensible Taurus comes with a twist - it’s also a lunar eclipse. But this eclipse has a different message to what the Sun and the Moon have been teaching all year.

This month, the full moon eclipse grants a sneak preview of what’s to come in 2022.

Each year, eclipse season occurs in pairs, gracing two signs on opposing ends of the zodiac wheel. It was Gemini and Sagittarius’ turn in 2021, and this year's eclipse message was (mostly) about finding your true north. But if you haven’t figured it out yet, don't worry; December’s solar eclipse in Sagittarius gives you one last shot at it.

Given that this month’s lunar eclipse is in Taurus, and Taurus and Scorpio are next in line to host the eclipses throughout 2022, pay close attention to what comes up for you in the four days before and after the eclipse on November 19. Because these will be the same overall themes that are likely to arise for you in 2022.

Eclipses can bring monumental change, so you may experience lasting transformation that’s born from a major reset or even something outside of your control.

A deep dive into emotional and financial security can be expected. And, your sex life may get an upgrade in 2022. Depending on your birth chart, issues around money, values, control, surrender and an epic change of heart or direction is on the cards.

This November eclipse is in 27 degrees of Taurus. Look to this spot in your chart to get some clues about what this luna message for you.

There is a lot to unpack about next year’s eclipses. But for now, notice the eclipse’s signs to give you a head start on next year’s gifts and challenges.

And, whatever you do, don’t charge your crystals during an eclipse! Even though the moon’s lush light will tempt you, an eclipse’s energy is erratic and can’t be trusted. That’s not the vibe you want to be sleeping next to, meditating with or around you. Wait until December’s full moon to charge up your precious pieces instead.

Natasha Weber, for more visits www.astrotash.com

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

• Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

• American Federation of Astrologers

• Federation of Australian Astrologer

Hali Tsotetsi 11/15/21 Hali Tsotetsi 11/15/21

3 of the hardest things to accept once we decide to align ourselves with wellness.

When I began my journey to wellness, I thought that my life would become easy. Yes, my health and moods have become more manageable; however, there is an array of issues that come once we decide to either change our diets, take on meditation or enter the wellness industry as a professional.

Life is about learning and I believe some of these challenges to be necessary.

Here are 3 of the hardest things to accept once we decide to align ourselves with wellness:

1. We can still make mistakes.

I see a lot of perfectionism in the wellness community and almost a sense of god-like behavior from those in it. And, I suffered from it, too. I had to humble myself immensely so that I could speak to people and teach others from a place of understanding and non-judgment.

Once we accept that we can and probably will make mistakes once we decide to change our lives for the better, it eases judgement from ourselves and prevents us from placing it on others.

We are supposed to make mistakes in life, they can be some of our best lessons.

2. That self-forgiveness is important.

When I decided to stop drinking in 2013 for an inevitable amount of time to work on myself, I felt a lot of memories of my past resurface. They were often very painful and some of them how I had hurt others.

Sometimes, the pain was so overwhelming that it would leave me in tears lying on the floor of a yoga studio. I had to learn self-forgiveness and have the same compassion I was trying to have for others with myself.

In the beginning, it seems selfish. Questions like, ‘Who am I to be forgiven?’ And to that I answer, ‘Who am I not to be forgiven?’ We all deserve a second chance, a clean slate and a renewal of our hearts are in the right place.

3. That I am not the ultimate end-all and be-all for my clients and those around me.

When I began my health journey, I came across as a ‘know-it-all’. Even though I didn’t feel like it, I would speak to people in certain ways that was condescending and patronizing. The opposite agenda of my intent.

Like I mentioned before, I had to humble myself and speak to others from compassion. I understood and accepted that how I convey a message is just as important as what I am trying to say. I also learned that if someone doesn’t want to be healthy or follow my recommendations, I am not the one to punish them for it.