Yize ngingakaze ngibe yithemba, okudala engangikuthola, okuncane engangikukholelwa ekuba nobuhlobo obunempilo nomuntu engikholwa ukuthi kufanele.

Ngemuva kokuhlukana kwami muva nje, nginqume ukugxila kwabesilisa abanomusa futhi ngizikhumbuze ukuthi amadoda amahle afuna ukuba sebudlelwaneni obunempilo akhona. Ngenze lolu shintsho ngoba ngemuva kokuba nobudlelwano obuningi obungasebenzi, angizange ngilahlekelwe yilutho kepha ngikholelwa ukuthi nami ngiyakufanelekela ukuba nobudlelwano obunempilo nendoda ekholelwa nalokhu.

Kusukela ngisezinsukwini futhi ngibe nengxoxo enhle nabathile abakhulu. Sizobona ukuthi lokhu kuholela kuphi kepha kuzwakala kungcono kakhulu ukuba nethemba ngabantu, ngokuvamile, kunokuphikisana nobulili noma iqembu labantu ndawonye ngoba wonke umuntu oyedwa kuleli zwe uhlukile-, futhi uhloselwe ukuba okwehlukile.

Ngomoya wokwethembeka nobuntu obuhle, yilokhu engingasoze ngakubiza ngo-'amadoda 'futhi:

1. Isimungulu.

2. Ubuvila.

3. Okuphathelene nobulili.

4. Abapheki.

5. Amanga.

6. Inkohliso.

7. Idiots.

8. Akusizi ngalutho.

9. Wimpy kakhulu.

10. Ukungacabangi.

11. Okungenamusa.

12. Ukucindezelwa.