Why do I want to forgive her?

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Why do I want to forgive her?

Because she sent me a lesson that is bigger than our friendship.

I got sent the ultimate lesson to not take anything personally. And, just because someone behaves a certain way with you, doesn’t mean that it is about you.

I forgive her because when people show me who they are, I believe them.

I forgive her because I grew out of this situation. I was reminded that sometimes a boundary comes in the form of trusting myself more than anyone else will.

I forgive her because although she tried to break my spirit, I overcame. And, I will always overcome.

I forgive her because I would rather know who someone is than have an enemy in friend’s clothing.

I forgive her because everything is exactly how it is meant to be. Who is meant for me is for me. There is no need to force anything, especially friendships.

I forgive her and send her love. Of course I will stand up for myself but how she reacts is between her and God.