I believe with my whole heart that life is about evolving and learning. Who we were yesterday should not be who we are today. As time passes, there are many things that we can learn and grow from.

Obviously, this should be natural. But, it is imperative for each of us to keep moving forward in order to make our lives better.

With that being said, life will throw challenges at us and it is up to us with what we do with them. Right now (in my life), I have been challenged to learn a few things. All of which are not easy things to do but are important in order for me to grow and become a better person.

Here are the 3 lessons that I am currently learning:

1. Everyday is a blessing.

If I am being fully honest, I admit that I have been taking life for granted these days. Something that I recently realized as I found myself jumping ahead into the future with my plans and, not being as grateful for the present moment.

It is ironic, yes! But, life is not guaranteed. There are many people taking their last breath or fighting for their lives and I have the blessing of being able to fully embrace a life that is healthy and meaningful. For that, I will always be grateful.

2. Being sober can be very powerful.

Every three months, I take a month-long break from drinking. Currently, I am on day 8 of this break and it feels refreshing to fill my body with more liquids that replenish my body; rather than dehydrate it.

It feels good to wake up with a clear mind and be able to focus my mind clearly without recovering from the night before.

3. People’s opinions of me are not to be taken to heart.

I have previously mentioned how I used to write for a very popular blog where I would get slated in the comment section and half of the comments were unkind. This taught me to have a thick skin and not take things personally.

As I build a platform on YouTube, I am seeing a ton of support. However, I also receive some negativity. Which is normal but can be jarring and effect my flow.

I am learning that every little thing someone has to say about the content I create or put out is not to be taken so seriously. Feedback is helpful but negativity is not. And, I can always choose to block it out.