I am a woman who has had a few relationships with men. I have noticed a trend, that every time I end a relationship, I am expected to be angry and hate on them. Despite what has happened between any of my past loves, I am grateful. I have dated men that were unkind and those who are kind. Just like women, not all are have ill-intent. 

I used to think of myself as a victim but ever since I have thought of myself as a survivor and a victor, my life has changed. I can look back and see that whoever I was with, we were two people coming together in hopes for the long haul but it didn’t work out. There is no reason for me to be bitter and call men names, like I used to (when I was stuck in my victimhood) because I believe in vibrating higher with those who want to do the same. 

So, in the spirit of higher vibration and growth, here are 9 things that I will never call men again: 

1. Dumb. 

2. Cheaters.

3. Inadequate. 

4. Incapable of love.

5. Unworthy of my time. 

6. Immature. 

7. Owe me more than I give them. 

8. Incapable of feeling. 

9. One-track minded.