Dear B, I love you and I let you go…

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Dear B, 

I made a promise to myself that I would never sacrifice myself for love, like I had before. It is a negative habit that I have consciously chosen to distance myself from. This is how I feel. 

I believe in love- with freedom. Not ties and pulling. Which is how I have been feeling. Honestly, I am afraid to let you go because I am scared that you might not return. Which probably means that I need to let you go. I am firm-believer in loving with freedom. 

I respect and honour the place that you are in your life. And, you are not in a position to offer me what I want. There is no need to wait for you to be able to give me what I want and deserve because that only creates suffering and dis-ease. I am the co-creator of my life so I let you go. Life is progressing and I am either moving forward with it or not. I used to think that, as a woman, I had to wait for a man to be ready to offer me security. But, now I understand that it has nothing to do with me. You are not able to be the partner that I want, which is not personal. It is life and I know that whatever decision I make, life will support me. Letting you go feels right. 

Everything is always working out in our favour. And, I know that you mean well. I have no anger and hostility towards you. I just want both of us to be happy and if I hold onto you now, I will regret it and resent you later. I do love you. With all the love that I have for you, I wish you well and hope that you thrive in whatever you do. 

All my love,