Dear H,

I am proud of you and excited for your future.

The path that you have chosen to taken is one that will pay off over time. Some people might not understand why you have chosen to behave the way that you have but you know. You are aware, conscious and seem to be grateful for the life that you have created.

I know that you have had some people disappoint you and betray you but I am proud of how you have grown. You are learning to take responsibility for situations and have completed the cycles of disrespect and unconsciousness.

I know that previously you had thought that if you spoke up that people would consider you high maintenance. So, I am proud of you for learning to differentiate the difference between asking for necessities to live a happy and healthy life and just making random respects.

I’m sorry that all of your romantic relationships have not worked out but I see how you have learnt and I am excited for the relationship that is on the way. I have faith that you will know that is worth the long haul because you will receive the respect, kindness and pure love that you truly deserve.

Circumstances and hurt people might tempt you to return to thinking like a victim but I ask you to take the high road. Not meaning that people will get away with mistreating you but that you remember what you have learnt, that being pulled into patterns of negativity is only draining.

H, your life deserves to be lived as fully and with as much love as possible. If anything comes in-between that, I hope that you reflect and ask if it’s worth having distance between these two things.

I’m glad that you have had examples of how you have hurt others and how others have hurt you, so that you can make a choice to release hurt and avoiding causing others hurt.

If you could see your future like I do, you would make an effort to smile at least once-a-day. So, please try! There is so much to be grateful for and I hope that you focus on that, particularly when you want to be focus on what is going ‘wrong’.

I love you.