12 Affirmations that I tell myself as I date again.

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What a Summer it is has been! I went from expecting to spend the rest of my life with someone, to deciding to leave that situation and be single. 


Although it was difficult, I took the necessary time and energy to heal from the past. I only have platonic love for my former partner and wish him only the best because he is a beautiful person. 


 As I move forward and date a new person, I remind myself of the following: 


1. I have learnt what I needed to learn for a reason.


2. I am worthy of love. 


3. I am worthy of someone else’s time. 


4. I am worthy of someone else’s actions that show me they are interested in me. 


5. I am worthy of a healthy relationship. 


6. I don’t need to be in a relationship to feel whole, I am whole enough. 


7. I am the love that I seek. 


8. Where I am is exactly where I am meant to be. 


9. No one else can heal me as much as I can.


10. Love is necessary and amazing but requires work, everyday kind of work. 


11. Growth is my choice and I choose to grow, transform and blossom into who I deserve to be. 


12. I am worthy of a relationship that fits my life and who I am.