I hope that one day, I am blessed to have a healthy family of my own. By health, I mean a home filled with unconditional love, support and emotional well-being.

I have been very vocal and literal about the healing that I had to do as an adult because of being raised in an emotionally unhealthy household. I have also been put through the wringer in romantic relationships and I played a part in those.

So, when I have the chance to create my own family, I want to get it as right as possible and foster an environment built on respect, kindness and genuine love. Although I have been asked to be married a few times and have been in relationships that were headed that direction, it never felt tangible. However, the more that I heal, the more that I would like to have a family of my own. Who I choose to have it with is very important and when the time comes, I will look for distinct characteristics .

Here are 9 qualities that I would like The Father of my children to embody:

1. Humility.

2. Kindness.

3. Health.

4. Someone who practices unconditional love.

5. Someone who is constantly growing and learning.

6. Someone who can take responsibility and be held accountable.

7. Someone genuine.

8. Someone who is down-to-earth.

9. Someone who is aligned with God and divinity.