I have been single for over a year and it has been splendid. I do see myself settling down and being in a partnership that is sacred, respectful, honest and filled with love.

As I think back on previous relationships, I am only grateful. Every now and then I get glimpses of the past of memories that leave me with a smile on my face. After it all, I am left with deep gratitude.

Here are 9 things that I would tell my exes:

1. Thank you.

2. You helped me grow.

3. You helped me learn how to love.

4. I am here today and have transformed partially because of you.

5. You are loved.

6. I hope you have all the love and happiness you deserve.

7. May all your wishes come true.

8. I pray for your health, your well-being and that you continue to choose love.

9. I’ve forgiven you as I am sure you have forgiven me.