9 Inspirational quotes by Maya Angelou

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My lifelong inspiration and teacher is Maya Angelou. Although she has passed on, she lived a life that few of us will forget. I remember the first time hearing her voice on a soundtrack while we were driving in my Dad’s car at the age of five and felt a deep connection to her voice. Ever since then, she has had a deep and profound influence on me.

As I always say (which has been inspired by Ms. Angelou), as I learn I want to teach. And, her teachings have had a great impact on my life so I would like to share a few quotes from her to you.

Here are 9 quotes by Maya Angelou:


1. ‘Still I rise’


2. ‘If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.’


3. ‘Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud.’


4. ‘All great achievements deserve time.’


5. ‘I got my own back.’


6. ‘I believe that everyone is born with talent.’


7. ‘If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing life can be.’


8. ‘Develop enough courage so that you can stand up for yourself and then stand up for someone else.’


9. ‘Only equals can become friends.’


Reference from www.wisdom quotes.comand Brainy quotes

‘Keep your vibe high…’ New Moon in Leo by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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NEW MOON IN LEO

 

SYDNEY: 11:50 pm, August 8th

NEW YORK: 9:50 am, August 8th

LOS ANGELES: 6:50 am, August 8th

LONDON: 2:50 pm, August 8th

 

La Luna and Le Soleil begin another spin around the heavens in lighthearted Leo. That’s not to say that everyone will be feeling on top of the world, but it does mean that the cosmos wants you to prioritise play.

 

Parties and social gatherings that are supposed to be fun can sometimes feel more like sticking pins in your eyes. That’s because what floats your boat is unique to you, and what it means to have a good time is open to personal interpretation.

 

With that in mind, this new Moon asks you to figure out what fun means to you. Then, go ahead and do that, even if it’s bizarre or offbeat. In fact, the sillier, the better!

 

August’s new Moon in Leo also spotlights children as the world contemplates the legacy we are leaving to our future generations.

 

When the new Moon’s influence is at its peak over the next four days, lift your gaze towards brighter possibilities. Keep your vibe high, so that our children become enthusiastically solution-driven rather than overwhelmed with hopelessness. 

 

Our children are the thought-leaders of the future.

 

That said, this month’s lunar message is a positive one. When it comes to having fun and being playful - do you. If you’re a parent, show your kids that delight is expressed in all shapes and sizes. Demonstrate that joy lives in your heart and that it can’t be touched or tainted by outside forces. 

 

This new Moon, I invite you to dance around the kitchen in your undies, giggle during inappropriate moments (because let’s face it, they’re the funniest) and laugh in the face of adversity. 

 

Keeping companions with your sense of humour is not trivial; it’s survival.

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About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

 

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

 

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

 

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer.

What it took to get to me. August 2020

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What it took to get to me.


It took me being single for the longest time since I can remember, to get to me.


It took me embracing health,

To get to me.


It took me needing to prove that I am lovable to anyone, to get to me.


It took me breaking generational curses, to get to me.


It took me slowing down, to get to me.


It took me letting go of the need to compete negatively with others, to get me.


It took me embracing forgiveness, to get to me.


It took me accepting that God’s plan is bigger than mine, to get to me.



5 holistic home remedies that I love.

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As a health coach and botanical skin specialist, I absolutely love organic and simple remedies. I grew up in South Africa where the focus is on nature and less on pharmaceuticals and drugs.


To me, it’s about balance. Yes, there is a time for western medicine but we cannot forget about the healing miracles that nature has blessed us with. For thousands of years, ancient healers have used herbs, spices and plants to cure the body.


Here are 5 holistic home remedies that I love:


1) Lime Water

You’ve probably heard of lemon water first thing in the morning but because of my high acidity, I prefer limes. They tend to be a little sweeter and have the some of the same properties as lemon. They are high in vitamin C, great for the gut and give a general flush to the digestive system.


I start off my day with a freshly squeezed lime in some room-temperature water and it has improved my mood and gut-health immensely.


2. Avocado

Since I was a kid, I have always loved a freshly ripened avocado. Yes, to eat! But mostly for my face and hair.


Avocados contain many vitamins but mostly vitamin E which keeps skin vibrant and young. I love to make a mask from it and place it on my face for 15 minutes every week. Afterwards my skin feels smooth, even and nourished.


3. Ginger

This root is a must, for me. I used to suffer with gut issues and found it hard to digest a lot of food. So, I started to snack and chew on raw ginger in the morning and ate night.


I also drink it in tea form and have noticed a big change in my digestion as a whole.


4. Honey

I have a ton of allergies and, as a child, was prone to sinus infections. Even though when I cut out lactose, it reduced my nasal, throat and eye issues because of allergies, I would still have those days when I sneezed non-stop.


I heard about the tale of eating honey as a way to relive sinuses infections and I thought it was hocus pocus until I tried it and it worked over time. I do still have days during Spring when my nose is itchy. However, as a whole, replacing conventional sugar with honey has improved my health a lot.


5. Botanical oils

There are different ways to keep skin youthful, clear and moisturized. However, when I was younger and used creams, I would develop uneven skintone, eczema and skin allergies.


I went to a botanical oil specialist school to learn about the healing powers of organics and helped me cure my skin issues. I was able to remedy my eczema by developing an oil-based face and body oil that blended into the cells of the seven layers of my skin.


There is nothing like using something directly from nature on your skin as opposed to harsh creams that are mostly water-based which dehydrates the skin.


*Hali is a certified health coach and skin specialist but not a doctor. This is not medical advise.

‘Don't be afraid to go it alone.’- Full Moon in Aquarius by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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FULL MOON IN AQUARIUS

 

SYDNEY: 12:38 pm, July 24th

NEW YORK: 10:38 pm, July 23rd

LOS ANGELES: 7:38 pm, July 23rd

LONDON: 3:38 am, July 24th

 

 

A rare Aquarian full Moon double whammy! 

 

July welcomes the first of two consecutive full Moons in self-sufficient Aquarius. Rarely does the cosmos deliver two full Moons in the same zodiac sign, but it can happen when La Luna visits the start of a sign in one cycle and then the tail end of that same sign in the next lunar cycle. So, what does this mean for you?

 

Both full Moons work in tandem, influencing a big decision or course of action that will forever alter the course of the collective. I expect we'll see this develop over the next two months in a Part A and Part B type of scenario across the globe. The same can be said for you personally, as La Luna leads you to a crossroad where you choose between a path that serves others and a path that better suits you. Hint; pick you! 

 

You may be torn between people-pleasing and pleasing yourself, especially if this is something you struggle with anyway. Still, there’s good news; the cosmos gives you the thumbs up to be a little more selfish as you begin to question how much you're investing in people and pastimes that give you next to nothing in return. You're encouraged to make different decisions that support you in becoming the best version of yourself. It's time to step away from anything that strips you of your power by becoming increasingly independent. Don't be afraid to go it alone. Walking through life in solitude can get lonely, but it's better than being with someone that trips you up every step of the way. 

 

In July, La Luna suggests that you give whatever's dragging you down the flick. So that by August, you're ready for a more supportive group of friends, a lovelier relationship or a more fulfilling (and lucrative) job. 

 

As the black sheep of the zodiac, Aquarius doesn’t give a hoot what anyone else says about them. They think for themselves and do what they feel in their bones is the right thing to do. Be like that.

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About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

 

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

 

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

 

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer.

3 Things that got me through some of the darkest times in my life.

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We have all had them, dark times. Moments when it’s hard to get out of bed, when we question those around us, when we question ourselves and look in the mirror with uncertainty.


I wish that I could say that I have only had these moments a few times in my life but I would be lying. I have had some serious dark times in my life and they have taught me so much. Just like we have light and positivity, there is negativity and darkness. They both coexist to make life and matter what it is.


I used to spend a lot of my life running away from darkness but the older and stronger that I get, I now face it head on because I have seen that instead of dancing around it, we must overcome it to build character. And, once we do, we walk taller, we feel stronger and it shapes us.


Here are 3 things that got me through some of the darkest times of my life:


1. Divine intervention.

I have always believed in God. Not the God that makes us conform to a specific religion but the masculine energy of creation that is the source of love, light and abundance. The complement to Mother Nature. They coexist to make The Universe.


Even though I always believed in God, I have not always had physical proof but times when I need it the most, The Creator showed up for me. An example of this is when I was in a toxic relationship where we would drink a lot together. One night, I got so drunk that I forgot I had spent my last cash on drinks but my check from work was about to clear the next day.


Even though I offered to pay him the next day and he could hold onto my passport in the meantime, the taxi-driver started yelling at me and called the police, I was crying and mortified. Out of nowhere in the distance, I saw three people in the shadows. They looked like angels in the light. As they came closer to the cab, their first question was why I was crying and I was taken aback that strangers could see how harsh I was being treated but we’re still so kind to me.They proceeded to pay my cab fare, I thanked them and then I walked a block home.


On the way to my apartment, I was shook about what just happened and I took a moment to take it in. I wondered what had just occurred and had witnessed the power of The Divine that I had always believed in. This loving force didn’t judge me, didn’t tell me I was a mess, this love didn’t tell me that I could do better but gently supported me in the right direction.


I felt God’s love so strongly and it nudged me in the right direction, the day afterwards I signed up for a thirty-day hot yoga challenge and quit drinking for three years.


2. Strangers

This may sound odd but although I have loving people in my life, now more than ever. Some of the most sincere exchanges have been with strangers.


When I moved back to New York as an adult, I used to work a café in The Lower East and met all walks of life. I would meet people traveling through, come across actors and producers who were filming, artists who had shows coming up and warm and friendly neighborhood folks.


Even though I hardly made any money, I learned to love and appreciate people. There was not one day that a story or person didn’t put a smile on my face. I had the fortune of experiencing true and genuine kindness from people who didn’t want anything from me but a genuine exchange.


3. Understanding that health is important.

I don’t remember a time in my childhood until early adulthood when I wasn’t on a diet, not eating or bulimic. I suffered from a serious eating disorder. Something that I learned from The Matriarchs in my family. It was instilled in me that my weight and size determined how far I get in life.


I am now an advocate for health. But, back then I wasn’t. I remember having fainting spells, people asking me if I ate and still feeling fat. One of the moments when I woke up from this spell of needing to be very thin was when I was in a modeling competition and one of my competitors asked me if I ate, I lied to her and said yes. I then asked her why she asked me that and she said that my thigh was half of hers. I didn’t believe her and told her that that was impossible. She asked us to compare in the mirror and I saw in the reflection that my thigh was half the size of hers. I couldn’t believe it.


I had thought that I was fat and was overly exercising, not eating and would throw up my food but was not satisfied until that comparison. I’m not sure if my competitor knows this but I think she saved my life. Although my food issues would resurface later, at that moment I saw how I had made my fatness up in my head. Once I could clearly see it, it made recovery (not easy) but a lot easier.

3 ways that we can heal The Matriarchy.

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We often hear the negativities of living in a ‘Patriarchy’, I would however argue that The Matriarchy is just as responsible for a lot of the issues that we have today.


It’s time to bring balance and equilibrium into our bodies, minds and hearts. That requires holding both The Matriarchy and Patriarchy responsible for the issues in our families and society.


For a few decades, we have not held women accountable because of the past. We are told that females went through a lot in history, which we did. I am very proud of the feminine ancestors that came before us but now it’s time for us to do our part.


Here are 3 ways that we can The Matriarchy:


1. Stop hating men.

I had a mentor who used to say negativity is more powerful than positivity and unfortunately, he was right. You see, we often align ourselves with people who have a common enemy to us and will unite with those who are enemies with our enemy.


It may not come from a bad place to want to bring someone who has hurt us down and band together with others who wish the same but it is a form of negativity. And, when we develop relationships based on hate, it will manifest itself in the relationship itself one day.


Unfortunately, this has become the trend with many women that I see. I was one of them. There is a collective energy amongst us to hate men and not welcome them in because of the past.


As the saying goes, what we hate controls us. And, how can we expect to have healthy relationships with men when we speak negatively of them and deny their strength in masculinity. I can say today that there are way more men getting it right than wrong, we need to acknowledge this.



2. Support one another.

I grew up in a household with many females and went to an all-girl school for most of my life. While I have made some lifelong friendships, most of my interactions with other girls and women have been hurtful, mean and shallow.


I used to think this was a reflection of me and that could very well be true. So, I include myself in saying that we all need to be more supportive of women.


Last Summer when it was trending to support other women on Instagram and Facebook, I was stunned at how some of the tags were from people who didn’t even care to check up on me during the pandemic so, were they really supportive?


Support is more than a like or picture on Instagram, it is meant to be genuine and we can all do better with this. Instead of criticizing another women for how she looks, maybe ask her how she is doing today. She is human after all.



3. Access our internal feminine divinity.

When I decided to embark on the journey of abundance, I found out so much about myself. Mostly that I had been faking real support for other women because I hadn’t been honest with myself.


I remember being in a yoga class where another yogi was asked to demonstrate a posture and I felt a deep sense of jealousy burn my chest. I was so shocked that I had that in me. I then went on to discover that I had been living in limitations that if someone else had it (especially a woman) then I couldn’t have it. This is the opposite of abundance. Now I look at it as though, if they can so can I. There is more than enough for all of us.


Other women can succeed and I want them to because that means so can I. We can support one another and compete healthily to be better versions of ourselves. No one has to lose out for me to win or feel better about myself.

‘What does home mean to you?’ New Moon in Cancer by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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NEW MOON IN CANCER

 

 

SYDNEY: 11:17 am, July 10th

NEW YORK: 9:17 pm, July 9th

LONDON: 2:17 am, July 10th

LOS ANGELES: 6:17 pm, July 9th

 

 

What does home mean to you? Is it a place, a feeling or a person? As July’s new Moon begins its cycle in Cancer, these questions may poke your heart.

 

For some, this new Moon inspires you to create a more comfortable living space. You’ll be drawn to decorating with sumptuous fabrics, filling vases with fresh flowers and adding special mementos to your mantle. There’s a cosmic focus on making your house a home. Because a place where you can retreat from life’s stresses should never be underestimated.

 

Others may be separated from their home during this new Moon. Let’s not forget that many people across the globe are currently stuck in a different state or country, unable to return to their homes and families. So, expect to hear more about this in the media. 

 

Cancer Sun, Moon and Ascendant signs will feel this new Moon's message most acutely. The same can be said for Capricorns, Aries and Libras. 

 

For the rest of you, what house does Cancer rule in your birth chart? This is the area where you’ll search for a sense of belonging, looking to fit in and be accepted for who you are. For you, this new Moon is about discovering the type of unconditional love where your uniqueness is embraced with open arms. For example, if Cancer rules your eleventh house, your friends' acceptance may come up for you. The eighth house points to resolving trust issues to create more intimacy. The tenth house suggests finding a workplace where you can fully express your talents without ridicule. 

 

La Luna asks that you manifest a space to call home. To you, this might be somewhere you can kick off your shoes at the end of the day, put on your trackies and relax. Maybehome is that one special person that loves you, warts and all. Or perhaps it’s a group or organisation that encourages your originality to shine.

 

Once you’ve found your tribe, your person or space where you can be the uncensored version of yourself, then you know you’ve truly arrived home.

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About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

 

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

 

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

 

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer.



9 Inspirational quotes by Dr. Wayne Dyer.

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There has not been a more influential teacher in my life than Dr. Wayne Dyer. His embodiment of the divine masculinity has moved me and helped me grow and evolve.


Every other morning, I listen to his abundance meditation or words of wisdom on repeat. It helps me think of the greater source, God and how grateful I am to be alive.


Although he has passed on, his work will always remain.


Here are 9 quotes from Dr. Wayne Dyer that I hope resonate with you:


1. ‘There are only two emotions - Fear and Love. Go with Love.’


2. ‘If you believe it will work out , you'll see opportunities. If you believe it won't you will see obstacles.’


3. ‘ Self-esteem comes from the self, not from acquisitions and
approval.’


4. ‘ If you blame others for something that happens in your life, then you must wait until they change in order to get better.’


5. ‘ Heaven on Earth is a choice you must make, not a place you must find.’


6. ‘Friends are God’s way of apologizing for your family.’


7. ‘When you judge another, you do not define them. You define you.’


8. ‘Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.’


9. ‘I am realistic. I expect miracles.’


References: AZ Quotes and Everyday power.

3 Things that I have recently accepted about myself.

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I believe that healing is a journey. One that we never stop doing because life is always in motion. And as we continue to grow and love, we often get hurt and that pain needs to be healed.


I have been very vocal about the childhood healing that I have gone through and I am open about it because that is the kind of work that we should be promoting. Because the best type of self-love is that of healing from the past.


So, as I heal, I would like to invite you to do the same so that we can leave our generational curses behind.


Through this continuous journey, I have accepted 3 things about myself:


1. I am lovable.

We can all say that we love ourselves but acting in a way that supports that is another story. It’s only until the last year do I feel like I have had relationships in my life that fully support me.


I feel like, in a weird and twisted way, the lockdowns forced me to stop putting on a face and deal with healing on a cellular level. I went from thinking that most of the people that I had in my life were supportive of me to realizing that that wasn’t true. Or if they were, it was in a way to primarily service them and use it against me.


I let go of a lot of friends, family and relationships that labeled me as ‘crazy, problematic or unlovable’ when I spoke from a place of truth. Labels that I have become too comfortable wearing because of my childhood trauma and as I have healed from my past, I see with clear eyes that I attracted people who made me feel unlovable because a part of me still felt that way.



2. I am worthy.

I have heard these three words in my daily affirmation meditation but as with the words above, it is only recently that it sunk in.


One of the biggest red flags about this was that I would overcompensate for relationships with people who wouldn’t show up the same way that I did. I can’t tell you how many times I have been love-bombed and then ghosted. As I have previously mentioned I believe that it is because I was raised in a narcissistic family household; however, I now see that this upbringing fundamentally stripped me of feeling worthy and feeling as though healthy relationships were unattainable.


When you spend your life in a constant state of cognitive dissonance around people who have known you your whole life, it is hard to feel and know that you are worthy- as I did. I struggled to feel worthy because I was surrounded by people who treated me like I wasn’t.


If you might be asking where my accountability in this is, I took it by releasing relationships with people who made me feel like I am not worthy because I am.



3. I don’t have to overcompensate anymore.

This has been one of the biggest realizations of my whole life. Truthfully, the lockdowns helped me see this. I grew up with an astounding pressure on me as I went to a private school and was constantly reminded that it was a sacrifice made for me.


The sacrifices that my parents had to go through to put me through private school, instilled a serious guilt in me because I hated school and I, myself, didn’t want to go there. It only recently dawned on me that it wasn’t done for me- it was for them. I did reap some benefits from it but being put through a harsh school system where I was constantly bullied and told that I wasn’t worthy is torture that no child should be subject to.


I used to feel like if I mentioned this that I was being ungrateful. I used to also think that if I told people how unhappy I was as a child that I was not a good person so this led to me overcompensating. I did as much as I could to run away from the fact that I wasn’t happy with how I was raised because in my culture, what your parents do for you should be enough.


As I free myself of any guilt, I accept that both can be true. I acknowledge that I was raised in abusive system that made me feel guilty about merely existing and I also accept that the people who held up this system were victims of it themselves.


I don’t have to do more for others out of guilt about anything anymore. I free myself of that feeling that I am less than or owe anyone anything. Life is a blessing and I choose to treat it as such. No more guilt, punishment or societal pressure- only alignment with God, healing and supportive people.

‘This full Moon lights a fire in your belly…’ Full Moon in Capricorn by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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FULL MOON IN CAPRICORN

 

SYDNEY: 4:39 am, June 25

NEW YORK: 2:39 pm, June 24

LONDON: 7:39 am, June 24

LOS ANGELES: 11:39 am, June 24

 

June’s full Moon in ambitious Capricorn sparks a desire for acknowledgment and appreciation. You’ll be chafing at the bit to get moving in your ideal professional direction, and a pat on the back wouldn't go astray either, right? Particularly if you’ve worked hard and sacrificed much.

 

Not a boss babe? You'll be massively motivated to achieve a personal goal all the same. This full Moon lights a fire in your belly, urging you to tear down obstacles to smash tasks and targets. In your insatiable desire for progress, you could risk crossing boundaries in the hot pursuit of your aims. This steely determination may also be expressed in your relationships, where you win a disagreement or a love interest’s affections with an I’m-not-taking-no-for-answer attitude.

 

But the Sun in comfy Cancer disagrees with La Luna’s unrelenting expectations. Le Soleil encourages you to take a load off and put your feet up. Who cares about progress? You're off the hook, darling. Go and play with friends and family. Cancer rules emotions, so the Crab just wants you to feel good. Did someone say chocolate and champagne on the couch? 

 

With these opposing forces at play, to say you feel pulled in two different directions is an understatement. But which path should you take? On the one hand, this full Moon promises big rewards for your efforts and recognitiongalore. Growing your Instagram following, building an empire, getting the guy (or the girl) and paying off your mortgage is as tempting as a desert oasis right now. 

 

The question is; do you sit in your comfort zone or push yourself to near-breaking point? Neither sounds appealing nor acceptable. La Luna whispers, “get ahead at all costs”, but Le Soleil says, “don’t worry, be happy”. 

 

The answer lies somewhere in-between both extremes. Saturn, the full Moon’s home planet, is in retrograde, suggesting that now is not the time for either. Instead, find the sweet spot that honours your need for self-care while steadily making your mark on the world. 

 

And then, you can have it all

For more, visit: www.astrotash.com

For more, visit: www.astrotash.com

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

 

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

 

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

 

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer.

3 Reasons why I stopped forcing positivity.

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They say too much of anything is bad for you and while I am hesitant to go along with the masses, I believe this to be true. Mostly because I have learned a lot about being the kind of person that gives all or nothing.
A lot of my life has been about alchemy, particularly when it comes to health and feeling good in my own body. I’ve carried this trend to almost everything that I have done and, recently, self-help and positivity.

Even though last year was the hardest year of my life, it was the one that carried the most growth for me. I learned that I didn’t have to overthink, over-fix or over-do anything, there is only so much that I can do. When I teach my students this, it makes sense to me. However, applying it is always something that is challenging- especially because I believe in hard-work and overcoming obstacles.


In 2020, I was forced to accept that sometimes I just have to sit with a feeling and not take things so personally. I couldn’t force the outcome through positive-thinking because that was becoming toxic.


Here are 3 reasons why I stopped forcing positivity:


1. I am a Spirit in a human body.
No matter what religious or cultural background you have adopted in this lifetime, life is not meant to be easy. And, when we expect it to be that way, we are only touching the surface. Which doesn’t do anything for us but project a false sense of who we are.


We cannot change, grow or evolve if we are just skimming the surface. It usually takes depth and understanding to do so. The whole human experience is meant to be profound and multidimensional; not just 3-d.


In this humanly body, I want to have evolved through depth and conception not by forcing a projected idea of what others think I should be. This experience involves crying, laughing, smiling, being neutral and other phases without judgement and attachment but with understanding and compassion.


2. Positive gaslighting is a real thing.


When I had one of my most pivotal moments in my life, I was 23 and had left an emotionally abusive relationship. Which both of us were complicit in.
After I ended this relationship, I became sober and did hot yoga everyday for 30-days straight. As a result, I had memories of shame regarding how I behaved when I used to drink to numb the pain of the reality that I created in my life. The embarrassment felt so over-whelming sometimes that I would suppress these feelings and shut them out.


I tried to erase my mistake-filled past with being perfect. Eating the right things, behaving perfectly, being almost holy and embodying what others would describe as sweet or nice. It was a facade that I projected to avoid accepting that I hadn’t behaved in the best way before.

I was subconsciously torturing myself for the past by not allowing myself to be human or feel. I was gaslighting myself with positivity by creating an alternative reality as to how things truly were. When I was faced with challenging people and things, I would lie to myself and project that it was easy and I was fine because I felt guilty of how I had acted in the past.
I came to realize that guilt cannot take back time and through forgiveness and grace, I can offer myself another chance to do things differently. Not out of force but by natural evolution and change.


3. There is no need to force anything in life.
There is a difference between effort and force. In fact, forcing some things to work out has landed me in a lot of trouble. Especially when dealing with other people.
Because I am a hard-worker and give things my all, sometimes I can give more and take on things that I am not meant to. This has attracted people (to me) who are okay with taking and offering little-in-return because when they don’t want to assume responsibility in the relationship, I will.


This is a toxic belief system. One that I have left behind. I cannot and won’t do work for others in relationships: it is meant to be shared. I used to give myself positive talks when dealing with emotionally abusive people of situations by saying things like, ‘You are stronger than this’, ‘You attracted this’, ‘We all have our issues’ or, ‘What if they were just having a bad day’.


These phrases might be true; however, if I use them to gloss over serious issues, they are not helping me or anyone else but merely doing harm. Yes, positivity can be toxic, too.



‘It’s a cosmic wrap!’ The New Moon in Gemini by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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NEW MOON ECLIPSE IN GEMINI

 

SYDNEY: 8:53 pm, June 10th

NEW YORK: 6:53 am, June 10th

LONDON: 11:53 am, June 10th

LOS ANGELES: 3:53 am, June 10th

 

It’s a cosmic wrap! This new moon solar eclipse in cerebral Gemini completes the final piece of the eclipse puzzle. But to fully understand this three-part series, including the full moon lunar eclipse and Mercury retrograde's part in it all, let’s recap from the beginning.

 

Remember that I spoke about finding your true North? That was during the lunar eclipse in Sagittarius, which focused on being authentic, changing opinions, and turning your belief system on its head. And because that lunar eclipse aligned with the Moon’s South Node, it encouraged you to detach from past ideas and outgrown narratives. In other words, releasing what's not in your ultimate best interests.

 

Enter Mercury retrograde, acting as a go-between for the full moon lunar eclipse and this solar new moon eclipse. While in retrograde, Mercury asks you to go within. To take your foot off the accelerator while you figure it all out. After all, beliefs aren’t formed overnight. They're often based on seeing things in a certain way for a good number of years. So, it takes time to release your tight grip on what you've always known to be true. Your opinions are based on a lifetime's collection of acquired knowledge, information and data. 

 

Sure, by going retrograde, Mercury messes with some technical and communication stuff. But during this eclipse storm, Mercury’s job is to dump all the information at your feet, and then it’s up to you to sort out fact from fiction.

 

Next up, we have this new Moon solar eclipse in Gemini. Not so surprisingly, it's in the same sign as Mercury and the polar opposite zodiac sign of Sagittarius. Meaning that whatever became unhinged or irrelevant during the lunar eclipse is now replaced with new seeds of thought. To top it off, this new moon eclipse aligns with the Moon's North Node, which points onwards and upwards as it shouts, "Your true North lies ahead. This way, darling!"

 

A word of caution; usually, a new Moon gives you the go-ahead to move forward with fresh projects. However, an eclipse throws a spanner in the works. So while you're encouraged to form new beliefs, and map out your path, wait two weeks before acting on them.

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

 

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

 

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

 

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

 

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer

Astrotash, Natasha Weber.   www.astrotash.com

Astrotash, Natasha Weber.

www.astrotash.com

9 Affirmations for healing from narcissistic relationships.

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I’m not completely sure why but in this era of The Age of Aquarius, it is becoming more and more apparent that some people are based in fear and others abundance. Whatever we align ourselves with is what we will attract more of.


And, as we move more into the 5-d world that is multi-sensory and technological, our need for survival will either dissipate or become more pronounced.


Last year, I went through an awakening of releasing people and things that were stifling my growth and acting in fear. Because the latter has no place in my life. I also noticed that there is a rise in narcissistic behavior in many, which is based on fear and lack of.


And, after I separated myself from certain energies and people, I started to feel almost a sense of guilt: as though I could save these people or as though how I felt or was treated was invalid. Sometimes, I will still have these feelings; however, certain mantras and affirmations have helped me heal the void that narcissistic personality-types used to fill in my life:


1. I align myself with health.


2. I am worthy of transparency.


3. I am worthy of respect.


4. I don’t have to get along with everyone.


5. I choose health over toxicity.


6. I am responsible for my own health and peace.


7. I am responsible for my happiness.


8. I align myself with abundance and release the lie that there is not enough.


9. I put up a boundary of protection and light.

The 3 Reasons why I left The Yoga Industry.

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Almost eight years ago, I became a yoga teacher. I spent almost two grand and two months putting in the blood, sweat and tears-literally. There were times that I almost quit and I am grateful that I didn’t because I got to learn and teach about one of my favorite subjects: Yoga.


Once I graduated and completed my yoga training, I taught for a bit and then took a break. After my hiatus, I decided to give Yoga my all. So much so that I moved to Los Angeles to teach full-time.


Through all the joy, pain and sometimes emotional abuse, I am grateful. Even though I have decided to step aside from teaching, I have learned a whole lot. About myself, business and other people. However, just because I learned, does not mean that I should stay and continue to learn and be a part of (what I believe to be) an abusive system.


I free my space, time and energy up to healthy things, jobs, places and people.


Here are The 3 Reasons that I left The Yoga Industry:


1. The lack of boundaries.


I haven’t been full-time as a yoga teacher for over a year and in this time, I have been able to set healthy boundaries for myself. Unfortunately when I was a teacher and my boundaries were broken by a power-tripping manager, an irate student or a misbehaving colleague, there was little protection for me.


Because the industry is so new, there aren’t that many boundaries. In fact, I believe most studio owners see their teachers as dispensable because every single studio that I have worked for let’s that be known in one way or another.


Whether it be through lack of scheduling after putting forward a boundary to management, being gaslit about a serious situation or being paid little-to-nothing, teachers are constantly reminded that they are dispensable and that can deter one from setting official boundaries of protection.


2. The pay

As I briefly mentioned in the last paragraph, yoga teachers are paid very little. In fact, during the lockdown I had time to sit down and review my taxes and finances. As I looked over the past few years, I made the least amount I have made in the last ten years when I was teaching. In some cases, half.


And granted, life is not about just money. However, compensation is important. When teachers are not being paid enough, it creates a negative environment because whether we acknowledge it or not, everyone wants to make a decent living.


I have a confession to make, I speak about abundance and try to practice it in my life. However, regarding yoga and how much I would get paid, I used to accept less than I deserve because I felt afraid to release my passion and something that I had worked so hard to be able to do.


I had been groomed and trained by the abusive system of this industry to put in my all and receive almost nothing back in-return. In fact, one studio owner once sent me a text saying that she would be paying me less starting the following week because of a new California law. Something that had nothing to do with me but was somehow being punished for. I have never ever experienced this in any other job but somehow it is accepted in yoga because we are brainwashed to think we are lucky to even be able to teach.


How much we are paid for a job does not automatically equate to what we should make; however, when people are compensated suitably, they take pride in their work. Until Yoga studios start to pay teachers what they are worth, they will experience high turnover and blame the teachers for something that is not the teachers fault.



3. The lack of stability and hidden rules.

I was asked recently by a practitioner why so many yoga teachers discontinue teaching and I told her that there are a number of reasons. But, for me, the biggest reason is that teaching requires an immense amount of internal stability because it probably won’t come from the studio that you teach for.


Being a yoga teacher is mentally and physically exhausted. And, it can be worth it for some or for a period of time. I do not regret any time when I was a teacher; however, I want to be honest about what I went through and it was a lot. Mostly because there are hidden rules and secrets at most yoga studios that I have taught at.


Who you hang out with from the studio, if you go to studio parties, if you are friends with the manager or chummy-chummy with a certain group of management, you are often put on the schedule. However, that can be taken away from you in the blink-of-an-eye without you knowing why or what you could have done to change it.


As someone who has been a manager and a leader of my own company, it is very apparent that the yoga industry will suffer if they continue these practices. Teachers will be continue to be burned out, students will find out and leave or not feel satisfied by bee teachers and, overall the businesses will fail.


How employees are treated is a reflection of the outcome of a business and people can feel energy, especially in a place of physical practice that claims to be about spirituality and wellness. The Yoga Industry has a lot of work to do and it starts with releasing the need to indoctrinate teachers and students with fear and practice real abundance like they claim to do.



‘Prepare for a belief system overhaul.’ Full Moon in Sagittarius by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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SYDNEY: 9:14 pm, May 26th

NEW YORK: 7:14 am, May 26th

LONDON: 12:14 pm, May 26th

LOS ANGELES: 4:14 am, May 26th

 

You’ve probably heard of this full super moon being called a ‘blood’ moon, which actually refers to the Earth’s reddish shadow that’s cast onto the moon during an eclipse.

 

When La Luna is classified as 'super', the moon is closest to Earth, which is why it appears big and juicy! Astrologically, any super moon amplifies the effects of the sign that it's in. So, in this case, the super moon is highlighting the eclipse in Sagittarius' message.

 

It’s no coincidence that this full moon in Sagittarius occurs a few days before Mercury’s retrograde. And, as this notable cosmic event is also a total eclipse, its effects are guaranteed to be long-lasting and quite possibly life-changing. This is especially true if you have a planet in your birth chart at five degrees of Sagittarius, Gemini, Virgo or Pisces.

 

Mercury’s retrograde and May’s lunar eclipse are in cahoots, magnifying each other’s message. While Gemini’s job is to relay ideas, data and knowledge, Sagittarius’ eclipse encourages you to arrive at new conclusions. An eclipse can conceal facts because as the moon is hidden by shadow, the same can be true about information. This doesn’t mean that what you need to know is unavailable, but you’re going to have to dig a little deeper. My hot tip for this eclipse? Prepare for a belief system overhaul.

 

In a nutshell, it’s time you question your opinions based on new, incoming intel.

 

But beware of gossip or false information! This can be Gemini’s trick. Yet, La Luna, in the sign of the Archer, points its arrow towards high ideals that are ultimately in search of the truth.

 

During this eclipse, it’s your task to sort fact from fiction and reset your sails towards your true North.

Natasha Weber, Astrologist.  visit www.astrotash.com for more

Natasha Weber, Astrologist.
visit www.astrotash.com for more

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

 

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

 

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

 

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer.

9 Affirmations for healing.

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One of my favorite things to do in life is to heal. Whether it be physical, emotional or spiritual, there is something so beautiful about restoring back to love and being whole.


So, in whatever form that you may be healing, here are some affirmations to help us heal:


1. I forgive the past and stay present.

2. I am whole.

3. I radiate from the inside out.

4. Love restores me.

5. Growth is a mindset.

6. Healing is a mindset.

7. I open myself to heal whatever needs to.

8. I humble myself enough to be able to heal.

9. I call on my angel Chamuel to aid in any healing that needs to take place in my mind, body and spirit.

‘Be down-to-earth, plain-speaking and reliable in all your relationships. And expect the same in return.’- by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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NEW MOON IN TAURUS

 

SYDNEY: 4:59 am, May 12

NEW YORK: 2:59 pm, May 11

LONDON: 7:59 pm, May 11

LOS ANGELES: 11:59 am, May 11

 

Whenever there is a new moon, both the sun and moon sit side-by-side in the same zodiac sign, so the hosting sign is emphasised - twice! May’s new moon in Taurus brings a heavy focus on all that the steadfast Bull stands for.Pragmatic, measured and anchored are this new moon's buzzwords.

 

La Luna in Taurus motivates you to be sensible in all you do. It leads from the head. Don't be surprised if you get the urge to comb through receipts and double-check your credit card statements, just to make sure you’re on top of your finances! Yep, sometimes the Universe calls you to address mundane duties, and this is one of those times. During this new moon, cross your i’s and dot your t’s too. Soon we’ll be entering Mercury’s retrograde, making it wise to get practical affairs in order. Sort through neglected paperwork, pay outstanding bills and tick off overdue tasks.

 

Emotionally speaking, this isn’t the time to run off with the fairies. Be down-to-earth, plain-speaking and reliable in all your relationships. And expect the same in return.

 

It’s worth noting that this new moon’s planetary ruler in flirty Gemini wants to shake off responsibility, preferring instead to paint the town red with your girl tribe. Don’t be surprised if your inner rebel shouts, “I’m ditching boring stuff to have fun!” By all means, listen to Venus, but after your night out, reset your priorities and do what needs to be done. 

 

La Luna in an earth sign marks a beautiful opportunity to practise grounding techniques. Do whatever suits you, but simply getting out into nature is a great start. Hug a tree or pick some pretty flowers. ‘Earth' your energy by ripping off your socks to walk barefoot in the grass or plonk yourself down with as much of your body touching the surface of the earth as possible. Sitting in the sand or digging in the garden also get the cosmic thumbs up this new moon.

 

What’s your fave grounding practice? 

 

 

 

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

 

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

 

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

 

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer.

3 Ways that I healed my childhood trauma.

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It is no secret that I grew up in a household with what seemed like, to me, a narcissistic parent. When I was 5 years-old, my parents began the process of divorce and that is when looking back, I have memories of me being a happy and fun child to not anymore.


This article is not intended to blame anyone. It is to acknowledge what me and so many children who are raised by narcissistic Mothers go through. It can be a deep pain that, once we admit, can free us up of hurt that can run through the very fabric of who we are.
I grew up in a household of secrets, expcetations, gaslighting and un-necessary guilt all at the hands of my Mother. Who claimed it was for my betterment but it did the opposite.


As I write this, I am obviously emotional but I can guarantee you that I am in a much better place than I have ever been and this has been a long time coming but is imperative to let all children who have gone through emotional, physical or mental abuse that you are not alone.
Here are 3 ways that I healed my childhood trauma:


1. Honesty.


The first time that I went to therapy as an adult was when I had just left an abusive romantic relationship with a man my senior. I have always been attracted to older men.


When I stepped into my counsellors office, I felt broken, worn down and empty inside. Over the months of our sessions, I began to uncover that a lot of my pain regarding that relationship was barely about him and more of my upbringing. I had memories of my Mother calling me fat, ugly and saying that I was just like my Dad. Who she believed to be evil and had very little kind things to say about.


After uncovering this, I hadn’t fully grasped how much this damaged me and left an imprint on my self-esteem but I did start to understand that a lot of my partnership problems stemmed from the emotional abuse that I had endured from my Mother. I knew I had work to do about this but I was afraid of facing the truth.


After some time, the truth became too apparent to deny as I remembered flashbacks of her insulting me and degrading me. All of which I had labeled as punishment for being a ‘bad’ child. However, I came to realize that my acting out was a result of being insulted by, who I believed, should’ve been the person who believed in me and cheered me on the most- my Mother.


2. Boundaries


I have said in a previous article that my narcissistic relationships, as an adult, helped me create and mantain boundaries.


The older that I got, I noticed that My Mother had a problem with these boundaries that I had set. She would always find a way to impose on my life, insult me or ask me for money that she felt entitled to. Because, as she would repeat, she was the one who stayed to raise us when my Father left us. Therefore, she was immune to criticism and being held accountable.


Just like clockwork, every time I would hold her accountable for her actions or not give into her narcissistic web of deception, I was met with the victimization story. Phrases like, ‘I could have left just like your Dad did’, ‘The doctors told me to abort you but I didn’t’ or, ‘I gave you your name and put you through private school’.


This is how, I believe, narcissists may avoid all responsibility for how they treat you because at the end of the day, they convince you that they are worse off victims than you are. So when you start to hold them accountable, you are met with stories about how bad of a person you are for expecting more from them. It can be very damaging to a person’s mental health to expect respect from a narcissist because you will never get it.


As I have gone through a ton of healing, I only have space for people who are willing to be held accountable for their actions, as I am for mine. I am done dealing with people who make you feel guilty for asking for genuine respect and kindness. It is not something I will chase after someone for. Either it is given or not.


3. I developed my own voice.


Because I grew up afraid to speak up for my health and well-being, I would let people close to me treat me however they wanted to. Being raised by (in my opinion) a narcissistic Mother, I had difficulty speaking up for myself and sticking with my convictions because I was used as a prop to make her feel better about herself.


In public, she was the concerned parent, dressed to the nines and showed up for most events. However, behind closed doors, there was a lot of verbal and emotional abuse. It confused me and broke my spirit as a child living under that household.


She would have a habit of bringing up something I had done when I was a kid that was a mistake or when I was naughty to have leverage over me and to make me feel like a fundamentally bad person when what I needed was guidance. In addition, the shaming would be in front of a group of other family members so that she maintained her power. Narcissists‘ currency is power and having leverage over others so that they project how they feel onto you, empty inside.


Because I was raised by someone who literally tried to strip me of my inner voice and played mental gymnastics with me to just speak up for myself, once I did it felt unnatural and almost like someone was going to tell me that I have been misbehaving for some reason. When all that I have been is me.

Through yoga, therapy, meditation, forgiveness and God’s Grace, I have found true healing. I no longer speak to my Mother and have no plan of doing so. In fact, cutting her off was the best thing that I have ever done in my life.
If you have ever suffered emotional, physical or mental abuse from anyone- particularly a family member, I encourage you to take a step back from them for your wellbeing and seek the healing that you need.
It is time for us to heal, as a collective, and to lay generational curses to rest. Once and for all.



9 Reasons that I choose to forgive.

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Like Mahatma Ghandi said, ‘The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strength.’


It’s not easy to forgive because our egos want to control situations and people but the best thing we can do others and ourselves for hurting one another, is to forgive. It doesn’t mean that we treat those who hurt us like best friends. It just means that we release the pain, drama and negativity that we have allowed to consume us.


Here are 9 reasons I choose to forgive:


1. I forgive because there is only so much time that I can spend angry at someone.


2. I forgive because unforgiveness causes diseases.


3. I forgive because the past is over.


4. I forgive because there is only so much I can do about the past.


5. I forgive because it is the best thing that I can do for myself.


6. I forgive because I am not better than another and have done wrongings, too.


7. I forgive because it is up to God to judge.


8. I forgive because one of the nest boundaries is to separate myself from inner and outer hostility and resentment.


9. I forgive because there is something soothing about letting go of holding people hostage to something that they have done or how they behaved in the past.