'And let’s not forget that Mercury is currently retrograding through Libra too.' New Moon in Libra by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

NEW MOON IN LIBRA

SYDNEY: 10:05 pm, October 6th

NEW YORK: 8:05 am, October 6th

LONDON: 1:05 pm, October 6th

LOS ANGELES: 5:05 am, October 6th

October’s new Moon in Libra spotlights relationships. And it's not just romantic connections that are thrown under the cosmic microscope. Your significant other could be your parent, bestie, sister, partner, or lover. In fact, anyone you do life with could be considered your #1 person under this Libra lunation.

Relationships are fragile things. How can they not be when they are the sum of two constantly evolving humans? Like both sides of Libra’s scales, it takes two to tango. So, when things go pear-shaped, it takes a tandem effort to fix your relationship mojo.

Mounting pressures, responsibilities, financial fears and communication issues take their toll on the most loving relationships. And let’s not forget that Mercury is currently retrograding through Libra too. 

If your meetups have been more like meltdowns, then this new Moon seeks to restore love, peace and harmony. More than anything, La Luna wants to get you both back on the same page.

To do this, examine how your relationship lost its footing. Check your give-and-take ratio. Has one of you become obsessive about the other? Are money worries causing you to bicker? Have you become so embroiled in your own world that you've neglected your person (or vice versa)?

Once you’ve pinpointed the problem, talk it out. Mercury’s retrograde through Libra encourages introspective communication - no secrets allowed! But here’s the clincher; the key to a successful discussion, is to listen as much as you speak.

And then, this new Moon delivers a fair and reasonable solution, understanding or compromise to bring back the love that was there all along.

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer

3 Reasons why I have unfollowed many celebrities.

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I had a deep awakening during these lockdowns. And, I feel like I went through many different phases. Over and over. One of the many things that I realized was that I am grateful to even be alive, have food and have my health.

You could say that this made me go back to basics and start all over again in many aspects of my life. Over the years, I had followed a few celebrities out of a shallow sense of self. And, as I have shed this aspect fo myself there is no need to follow people who represent the antithesis of what I want to embody.

When I saw many of them speak about us going through an equalizer, I grew angry at the thought that a lot of them who live luxuriously would even equate our lives to theirs. Especially when a video dropped of a few of them singing ‘imagine’ by John Lennon. I was actually quite disgusted by the sense of superiority that I felt coming from many of them. It reminded me of Marie Antoinette’s infamous saying, ‘Let them eat cake!’

I have always been a believer in transforming negative energy into something more and I did. I made a decision to leave the shallow world behind and unfollow those who were boasting superficial pictures of themselves or merely being insensitive.

Here are 3 reasons why I unfollowed many celebrities during the lockdowns:

1. It was bringing me down.

I have repeatedly said how difficult last year was for me. So, I took control of my life. I decided to shed my life of fake things and people. I don’t want to blame them for being in my life but I decided to release them because they no longer had a purpose in my life.

I let go of a few people and cleansed my social media so that it represented me and what I want to reflect into The World. I am done being bombarded with booty pics or shallow aspects of The World when I want to align myself with real.

2. It wasn’t contributing anything to my life.

One specific celebrity I unfollowed because they were posting to demonize people who vote differently to them. I felt anxiety from that energy on my phone so I decided to cleanse it.

I will never be for being against another because of who they decide to vote for. It is just not me to do so. I am not above anyone and no one is above me so no one has the authority to tell others how they should live their life. We can guide and communicate. But, communication involves listening as well as speaking- many forget that.

3. I want to celebrate talent not a lifestyle.

I don’t want to judge some people for showing off their private planes and women entourage or naked selfies. But, for me, there is so much more to life. I am more interested in connections with people, loving and being at peace with who I am.

As someone who grew up in the music world, I love to celebrate talent and authenticity. However, flaunting a lifestyle to millions of people has never been my cup of tea. When we are superficial, we attract others who are that way. So, unfollowing celebrities was a way of releasing that fake world from my energetic sphere and diving deeper into more meaningful things and people.

9 More types of people that I keep my distance from.

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To be clear, keeping a distance from some people, does not mean that I am better than they are. It is just that they either do not mesh well with my energy, that they might have a tendency to hurt or betray those around them or that they are nor in the space to accept love or give love.

I have been one of these people. And until, I developed self-awareness and decided to work on myself, I was the type of person that I am writing about. So, I am not here to judge but do so from a place of energetic vibration and protection.

We all deserve to decide who and what is in our lives. And, although I do not judge, I haves decided to take ownership of my life and in doing so, I can decide who is in it and who isn’t.

Here are 9 types of people that I distance myself from:

1. Those who are constantly in competition with others and have difficulty just being.

2. Those who speak more than they listen.

3. Those who speak about what they will do and don’t do.

4. Those who take advantage of others.

5. Those who have not healed the hurt that they have endured.

6. Those who always see the negative and dark in everything.

7. Those who weaponize positivity and do not leave space for emotional healing.

8. Those who believe that they are above others.

9. Those who hesitate to give but are more than happy to take.

‘Silence your inner critic and accept your failings and flaws.’ Full Moon in Pisces by astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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FULL MOON IN PISCES

SYDNEY: 9:55 am, September 21

NEW YORK: 7:55 pm, September 20

LONDON: 12:55 am, September 21

LOS ANGELES: 4:55 pm, September 20

September’s full Moon stirs up a super sensitive vibe. The world needs a hug right now, and La Luna knows it.

Nestling next to Scheat, a fixed star with a notorious reputation for emotional overwhelm, this full Moon feels vulnerable, fragile and teary. But don’t give up, darling. This is the Universe’s way of bringing people together under an umbrella of compassion. Now is the time to be gentle with yourself and others. 

Silence your inner critic and accept your failings and flaws. 

Resist beating yourself up over missed goals and lost dreams. La Luna offers a quiet place to grieve, as you remember that it’s always darkest before dawn.

Rest assured that the effects of this highly charged and emotional full Moon will be felt across the globe, so reach out to someone that’s struggling. You’ll quickly identify this person as La Luna grants you supersonic intuition over the next four days to two weeks. The trick to supporting someone is to be present rather than try to solve their problems. Active listening is the key.

Self-love and self-care may have become trendy new age buzz words, but they accurately describe what this full Moon is all about. 

What are your self-love practices? 

September’s full Moon marks the perfect time to implement at least one self-love practice that nurtures your mind, body or soul. 

Here are a few ideas because this full Moon encourages sharing the love.

1. Soak in an aromatherapy bath using the essential oils of Lavender to relax, Bergamot to uplift and ease depression, and Ylang-Ylang for stress relief.

2. Walk amongst nature.

3. Dance like no one’s watching. And if they are, laugh at your outrageous moves!

4. Listen to a guided meditation.

5. Chat to a sympathetic friend that won't judge you, no matter how crazy or irrational your fears sound.

This full Moon, open your arms wide to give and receive a huge (virtual) hug, knowing that while this may not be your finest moment, you’ll soon sparkle again.

For more visit, www.astrotash.com

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer

9 Things that I have learned about my body.

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My body and I have been through a lot and I am grateful to have this temple to live life through. I was blessed with a healthy fully functioning body and it’s only recently that I have been able to see that.

Only until a few years ago have I stopped criticizing every single thing about my body and am learning to love it in every phase: whether I now that it needs to be healthier or when it is at it’s healthiest. We can love something or someone and still acknowledge that it needs work.

So, while I acknowledge my body today and am grateful for it. Here are 9 things that I have learned about my body:

1. I only got one.

2. It doesn’t need to look like someone else’s to function properly.

3. Cellulite, stretch marks and scars come and go.

4. Forcing my body to be something it won’t ever be, is dangerous.

5. Health, for my body, is primary.

6. My body has forgiven me, so I release the need to criticize and demean it.

7. I am on the same team as my body.

8. Calorie-counting is torture for my health Journey.

9. It is one of the best gifts that I have gotten and I will forever be grateful for it.

‘Address lingering ailments...’ New Moon in Virgo by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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NEW MOON IN VIRGO

SYDNEY: 10:53 am, September 7th

NEW YORK: 8:53 pm, September 6th

LONDON: 1:53 am, September 7th

LOS ANGELES: 5:53 pm, September 6th

Virgo hosts September’s new moon, and as the sign that rules health, it’s no surprise that your wellbeing is this month's top priority. 

Address lingering ailments, especially if you’ve allowed routine checkups to slide. Sure, the world is preoccupied with a health crisis, but that doesn’t mean it’s okay to miss your regular tune-ups. Skipping pap smears, skin checks and ignoring your body’s warning signals is never a good idea, and this especially true during September’s new moon.

Independent Uranus’ precise alignment puts a unique spin on things. The rebellious planet inspires radical change, enticing you to shake up your usual wellness routine. Swap your morning jog for a vinyasa flow. Try lifting weights rather than power walking. Or order a carrot, celery and ginger juice instead of a latte.

On the same day as the new moon, Mercury enters its retrograde shadow period. As La Luna’s ruler and the planet that governs your mind, Mercury spotlights the importance of mental health. 

This new moon urges you to nourish your body and nurture your mind.

Virgo can be prone to excessive worrying, anxiety and nervous strain, and right now, acknowledging these issues is paramount. Although that’s easier said than done, the universe intends to put helpful people and enlightening situations under your nose. Take advantage of free resources, support groups and understanding besties - and don’t forget to pay it forward. When someone needs a shoulder to cry on, be there with open arms and a sympathetic heart. 

If you’re struggling to stay mentally afloat, please reach out and ask for help. Because it’s okay to not be okay.

For more visit, astrotash.com

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer

3 Things that I have learned during COVID

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Granted, things might not fully be back to normal but we are is way more close to how things used to be than a year ago. I have previously mentioned how last year was the toughest year of my life. I’m sure that I am not the only one who feels this way. But, we made it and it was testimony (to me) that if we believe, we will always be okay.

Although it was a tough time, I think it was secretly a blessing because things happened for me that wouldn’t have if we didn’t go into lockdown. I am sorry that so many people lost their lives and for that I empathize.

However, personally, The World literally stopping taught me a few surprising things.

Here are 3 of them:

1) God has been there for me when people weren’t.

Last year, I saw a side to a lot of people who used to be in my life: family, friends and acquaintances who were around when things were going well but when I stood up for myself or thought for myself, I became the enemy.

I remember lying on my bedroom floor crying and wondering how I was going to pay my rent, if I would ever teach yoga again or, why so many people had turned on me because I was questioning the common narrative of how things were transpiring. I found myself uncontrollably crying when I put on the gospel song, ‘We fall down’ by Duane Wright.

I felt a sudden feeling of lightness and release as I understood that I would be alright. I remembered how far I had come and what I had survived which gave me the courage to have hope that I was going to be okay.

2) Going along to get along is not the option.

While I am easy to get along with, I won’t do it at the expense of who I am and what I believe in. On June 2nd of 2020, I saw a ton of people posting black squares on their social media in honor of Black Lives Matters. It was almost like robots were posting for people.

As I began to scroll through these black squares showing up on my feed, I noticed some people posting who I have heard say racist things from their own mouth and spoken down upon black people in their own lives , some I corrected and others I didn’t want to waste me time. I also noticed actors, musicians and public people who have never had a black person in anything they have worked in or done. I also suddenly noticed how some of these people brought their token black friends for photos as though they were props and not people.

I saw a lot of hypocrisy and it was very revealing. It appeared that the squares were more to get along and to appear virtuous than actually be so. There will always be phonies but it is disappointing when an idea is tainted by those who do it just to get along and play along than those who do it because it is really where their heart is.

3) I can’t be the only fighting for relationships.

I have previously spoken about how I was conditioned from my family dynamic to be the person who makes up for others in relationships. Whether it was family, partners or acquaintances, I was raised to be the one who appeases, to say sorry first and sometimes that took a piece of who I was and my own voice because it put a lot of pressure on me.

Especially in romantic relationships, I would overcompensate so that I would be the perfect partner and be lovable. Subconsciously so that they wouldn’t leave, like my Dad left when I was a child. My people- pleasing was to stop the cycle of abandonment from ever happening to me again.

Since I have released this pressure from myself of needing to be this perfect person for others, I am so much more at peace with who I am. I don’t have to be in relationships with people that I give more to, people who put me last, who never reply to my messages or don’t show me that they genuinely care. It has to be about reciprocity or there is no point in being in it.

The 3 Reasons that Millennials are struggling in relationships.

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This article is inspired by the advice that I have given myself and my clientele as a health coach and spiritual guide. I have had hundreds of clients and appreciate them all. But a common thread in myself and others that I can predominantly see is that the millennial age range is searching for Love but having difficulty finding it.

While I do have clientele and readers who are older, I want to focus on millennials as most of us that want to start a family and find the person to do it with.

I am combining my failed relationships with those that I have seen from my profession to highlight why Millenials are struggling in relationships and how we can change that.

Here are 3 Reasons Millenials are struggling relationships:

1. Our examples failed us.

As a child of divorce, I was shown that it is normal for parents to not get along even if they were divorced. It was only once I started to being the healing process of my childhood did I start to understand that fragmented relationships are not normal.

As a child, I had not seen two parents together and happy in my family. This shaped my relationships and how I approached them. I saw men as the enemy and attracted men proved my theory to be right.

We are the generation with the highest percentage of divorced parents and single parent homes. This is not to take away from the hard work that parents have done but when kids are raised by only one parent at a time, they don’t learn many things.

It was only recently did I learn the value of communicating issues to someone that I am in a relationship with and not just leaving, working through issues and, listening and being heard. Although our examples may have failed us, we can learn through therapy and holistic healing to heal our trauma and love from a genuine place.

2. With freedom comes responsibility.

We are the first generation to fully break the mold of traditional roles in relationships. And while I believe that some aspects of tradition are helpful, there are others that aren’t. As I have previously stated in former articles, I believe in the old aspect of feminism where we had to fight for rights to even have a bank account and own a house. But, we still valued and honored men as much as we did women.

Although I believe that feminism has become toxic, I still hold the belief of equality between men and women. Now that we do have more equality, it is something new. And, some women are struggling to embrace this freedom; while men might be having difficulty understanding this notion, too. In addition, I have experienced some women taking it too far and hating men for the past.

This is the era of freedom where we get to choose the kind of relationship that we want. However, liberty is not for those who want to shift blame, it is only for those who take responsibility and learn. So, while we create these new ways of partnerships, we must take accountability for situations and relationships that we are in. Not from a harsh judgemental place but from a compassionate way so that we can move forward with love.

3. Distractions lack substance.

This has been the longest time that I have been single since I was a preteen and the lockdowns have been such a blessing in disguise. When I wanted to run from my healing, I was forced to be with myself. During this time, I saw how distracting my life had become.

I would leave one relationship to be with myself and end up with another. But this time, it was different. I got the chance to fully heal from my previous trauma and close out past chapters completely. I had to look within myself and forgive myself and others for the hurt I caused others and the hurt that was done to me.

While on the professional front, I felt like a lot of time has been wasted, on a personal level I got to sit with myself through one of the toughest times of my life without distractions and the ability to run. Internal depth is something that is irreplaceable because it helps us understand why we behave the way we do and enlightens us to make a healthier choice next time.

‘VIBE WITH YOUR TRIBE’ - The full moon in Aquarius by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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SYDNEY: 10:02 pm, August 22nd

NEW YORK: 8:02 am, August 22nd

LONDON: 1:02 pm, August 22nd

LOS ANGELES: 5:02 am, August 22nd

This full Moon is unique because it’s a seasonal blue moon and the second consecutive full Moon in Aquarius. These points of difference alone should make you sit up and take notice! Think of this cosmic double-up as the Universe’s attempt to get your undivided attention.

Aquarius stands for freedom. Freedom of thought, freedom of movement and freedom of choice. So, it’s no surprise that these are the hot topics discussed in the media and around our dinner tables.

Lockdowns have impacted the world at large, and I’m hopeful that this final Aquarian full Moon marks the beginning of the end of these types of severe restrictions. But before that happens, we’re likely to see the subject of freedom and its limitations peak. Expect this hot spot to occur before the next full Moon in Pisces, when we will be manifesting our own versions of a utopian world. 

Have you experienced a significant loss of personal freedom and liberties? Aquarius plays a role in your intellect and cerebral processes, so if the answer is "yes", this is likely to have impacted your mental health. This is a topic that I’ll discuss in greater detail during next month’s full Moon in sensitive Pisces. But for now, my numero uno tip to support your mental health while La Luna is full in Aquarius is:

VIBE WITH YOUR TRIBE

Aquarius governs friendships, so keeping company with high vibing people is crucial to your mental health. Surround yourself with friends that accept you for who you are. You shouldn’t have to pour your precious energy into proving your worth, beliefs, or values to anyone else. Squabbling amongst your inner circle is not only a waste of time; it’s also a massive detour from your true North. 

Hang out with your like-minded soul sisters with the purpose of uplifting and inspiring each other. 

Thanks to this full Moon in Aquarius, you have the freedom to choose your besties - make your choices count towards a more peaceful, supported and fearless YOU!

For more, visit www.astrotash.com

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer.

3 Things that I wish I’d known before I left the Yoga Industry.

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I recently got asked a few times by different people to teach yoga again. While I am very grateful that I had the privilege of teaching yoga for eight years, I am clear that that part of my life is over.

In April of this year, I decided to stop teaching yoga. Although I still practice almost everyday, I had to make the decision for myself and for my well-being. In my last days, I had taught for five studios, each for at least a year and some for a few years. However, all of them embodied some form of abusive, harassment and lack of owner accountability.

This is not to say that all studios are this way but, there is a trend in the yoga community for teachers to spend tons of money becoming a teacher in hopes for their dreams to be fulfilled and only to enter an industry that wants to use and abuse them.

Now before you say, where is your accountability, check out my past articles where I speak about what I could’ve done and how I contributed to this.

But, for this article, I would like to be transparent and open about what I wish I’d known before I left the yoga industry:

1. You’re not the only one.

When I published one of my former articles about how I felt used and abused by almost all of the yoga studios that I had worked for, I received a ton of support. Even some people writing to tell me that they had experienced the same thing.

Although it broke my heart to hear that other people had gone through this, I was even more upset that they had to suffer in silence. At all the studios I had taught at, there was a sense of fear. You would be afraid to speak up for fear of not being put on the schedule or being treated a certain way by management.

While I previously had spoken up throughout my career, many others didn’t and I understand why. This industry has become a lot like others that have been poisoned by greed and toxic work environments, where the employees are shunned and thought of as last.

I believe there will be a wreckoning of which I am happy to be a part of and with the support of others, I believe that we can bring real change.

2. Time for a change.

At the last yoga studio that I had taught at, I had been subject to a few students’ stalking me and following me outside of work. All of which I reported but was met with various forms of gaslighting: ‘Are you sure?’, ‘There’s nothing we can do’ or, ‘Are you sure he meant it like that?’

In fact, there was a patron that I would see a block away from my house who would tell me that one day he would marry me. Although this behavior scared me, I was never taken seriously by the management where I taught.

I got to the point with them that it became difficult to even say anything because I would be told that I was crazy or gaslit in another way. I realized that it had taken three years for this company that I worked for to push their psychological abuse on me. It started with love-bombing, then isolation and then being told that I was the issue.

While I learned a lot working there, I most certainly learned that sometimes being professional is way more substantial than a cake atmosphere of people who claim to believe in you that don’t.

3. Go where you are wanted.

At the end of my teaching days, I felt unwanted. It was like being in a relationship with someone who is never truly happy with you and makes it seem like they could leave or cheat if they could.

During the lockdowns, I was forced to be honest with myself and I reached out to other teachers about how much they were paid and how they were treated because I felt alone. I discovered that I wasn’t alone and that I had been working a lot for studios and people who take yoga teachers for granted.

So, I made a plan to leave. While I build my own business and another career, I appreciate all the lessons. The biggest one is that I will never go somewhere ever again where I am unwanted or made to feel like the crazy one.

9 Inspirational Quotes by Ralph Smart

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I came across Ralph Smart when I was going through my twin flame journey. I had just moved to Los Angeles and met the person that I had believed would shift my world. The person did but it was a lot of Ralph’s teaching that helped me to see things in a non-attachment perspective. 

I learned so much from his teachings and wisdom. So, I would like to pass some of that onto you. 

Here are 9 inspirational quotes by Ralph Smart: 

1. Connect with those who remind you of who you are. 

2. People’s opinions of us will always change, but how we see ourselves will change forever. 

3. Words are powerful vibrations, use words to uplift your spirit and heal yourself. 

4. We are only alone when we abandon ourselves. 

5. Study everything but study yourself first. 

6. We live in the world that we are thinking of.

7. Wisdom is power. Wisdom is knowledge applied. 

8. You can only give what you have. 

9. Go to the place where you find your greatest power. 

Quote references:

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•Inspiring Quotes

• Quote catalog

9 Inspirational quotes by Maya Angelou

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My lifelong inspiration and teacher is Maya Angelou. Although she has passed on, she lived a life that few of us will forget. I remember the first time hearing her voice on a soundtrack while we were driving in my Dad’s car at the age of five and felt a deep connection to her voice. Ever since then, she has had a deep and profound influence on me.

As I always say (which has been inspired by Ms. Angelou), as I learn I want to teach. And, her teachings have had a great impact on my life so I would like to share a few quotes from her to you.

Here are 9 quotes by Maya Angelou:

1. ‘Still I rise’

2. ‘If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.’

3. ‘Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud.’

4. ‘All great achievements deserve time.’

5. ‘I got my own back.’

6. ‘I believe that everyone is born with talent.’

7. ‘If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing life can be.’

8. ‘Develop enough courage so that you can stand up for yourself and then stand up for someone else.’

9. ‘Only equals can become friends.’

Reference from www.wisdom quotes.comand Brainy quotes

‘Keep your vibe high…’ New Moon in Leo by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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NEW MOON IN LEO

SYDNEY: 11:50 pm, August 8th

NEW YORK: 9:50 am, August 8th

LOS ANGELES: 6:50 am, August 8th

LONDON: 2:50 pm, August 8th

La Luna and Le Soleil begin another spin around the heavens in lighthearted Leo. That’s not to say that everyone will be feeling on top of the world, but it does mean that the cosmos wants you to prioritise play.

Parties and social gatherings that are supposed to be fun can sometimes feel more like sticking pins in your eyes. That’s because what floats your boat is unique to you, and what it means to have a good time is open to personal interpretation.

With that in mind, this new Moon asks you to figure out what fun means to you. Then, go ahead and do that, even if it’s bizarre or offbeat. In fact, the sillier, the better!

August’s new Moon in Leo also spotlights children as the world contemplates the legacy we are leaving to our future generations.

When the new Moon’s influence is at its peak over the next four days, lift your gaze towards brighter possibilities. Keep your vibe high, so that our children become enthusiastically solution-driven rather than overwhelmed with hopelessness. 

Our children are the thought-leaders of the future.

That said, this month’s lunar message is a positive one. When it comes to having fun and being playful - do you. If you’re a parent, show your kids that delight is expressed in all shapes and sizes. Demonstrate that joy lives in your heart and that it can’t be touched or tainted by outside forces. 

This new Moon, I invite you to dance around the kitchen in your undies, giggle during inappropriate moments (because let’s face it, they’re the funniest) and laugh in the face of adversity. 

Keeping companions with your sense of humour is not trivial; it’s survival.

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About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer.

What it took to get to me. August 2020

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What it took to get to me.

It took me being single for the longest time since I can remember, to get to me.

It took me embracing health,

To get to me.

It took me needing to prove that I am lovable to anyone, to get to me.

It took me breaking generational curses, to get to me.

It took me slowing down, to get to me.

It took me letting go of the need to compete negatively with others, to get me.

It took me embracing forgiveness, to get to me.

It took me accepting that God’s plan is bigger than mine, to get to me.

5 holistic home remedies that I love.

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As a health coach and botanical skin specialist, I absolutely love organic and simple remedies. I grew up in South Africa where the focus is on nature and less on pharmaceuticals and drugs.

To me, it’s about balance. Yes, there is a time for western medicine but we cannot forget about the healing miracles that nature has blessed us with. For thousands of years, ancient healers have used herbs, spices and plants to cure the body.

Here are 5 holistic home remedies that I love:

1) Lime Water

You’ve probably heard of lemon water first thing in the morning but because of my high acidity, I prefer limes. They tend to be a little sweeter and have the some of the same properties as lemon. They are high in vitamin C, great for the gut and give a general flush to the digestive system.

I start off my day with a freshly squeezed lime in some room-temperature water and it has improved my mood and gut-health immensely.

2. Avocado

Since I was a kid, I have always loved a freshly ripened avocado. Yes, to eat! But mostly for my face and hair.

Avocados contain many vitamins but mostly vitamin E which keeps skin vibrant and young. I love to make a mask from it and place it on my face for 15 minutes every week. Afterwards my skin feels smooth, even and nourished.

3. Ginger

This root is a must, for me. I used to suffer with gut issues and found it hard to digest a lot of food. So, I started to snack and chew on raw ginger in the morning and ate night.

I also drink it in tea form and have noticed a big change in my digestion as a whole.

4. Honey

I have a ton of allergies and, as a child, was prone to sinus infections. Even though when I cut out lactose, it reduced my nasal, throat and eye issues because of allergies, I would still have those days when I sneezed non-stop.

I heard about the tale of eating honey as a way to relive sinuses infections and I thought it was hocus pocus until I tried it and it worked over time. I do still have days during Spring when my nose is itchy. However, as a whole, replacing conventional sugar with honey has improved my health a lot.

5. Botanical oils

There are different ways to keep skin youthful, clear and moisturized. However, when I was younger and used creams, I would develop uneven skintone, eczema and skin allergies.

I went to a botanical oil specialist school to learn about the healing powers of organics and helped me cure my skin issues. I was able to remedy my eczema by developing an oil-based face and body oil that blended into the cells of the seven layers of my skin.

There is nothing like using something directly from nature on your skin as opposed to harsh creams that are mostly water-based which dehydrates the skin.

*Hali is a certified health coach and skin specialist but not a doctor. This is not medical advise.

‘Don't be afraid to go it alone.’- Full Moon in Aquarius by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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FULL MOON IN AQUARIUS

SYDNEY: 12:38 pm, July 24th

NEW YORK: 10:38 pm, July 23rd

LOS ANGELES: 7:38 pm, July 23rd

LONDON: 3:38 am, July 24th

A rare Aquarian full Moon double whammy! 

July welcomes the first of two consecutive full Moons in self-sufficient Aquarius. Rarely does the cosmos deliver two full Moons in the same zodiac sign, but it can happen when La Luna visits the start of a sign in one cycle and then the tail end of that same sign in the next lunar cycle. So, what does this mean for you?

Both full Moons work in tandem, influencing a big decision or course of action that will forever alter the course of the collective. I expect we'll see this develop over the next two months in a Part A and Part B type of scenario across the globe. The same can be said for you personally, as La Luna leads you to a crossroad where you choose between a path that serves others and a path that better suits you. Hint; pick you! 

You may be torn between people-pleasing and pleasing yourself, especially if this is something you struggle with anyway. Still, there’s good news; the cosmos gives you the thumbs up to be a little more selfish as you begin to question how much you're investing in people and pastimes that give you next to nothing in return. You're encouraged to make different decisions that support you in becoming the best version of yourself. It's time to step away from anything that strips you of your power by becoming increasingly independent. Don't be afraid to go it alone. Walking through life in solitude can get lonely, but it's better than being with someone that trips you up every step of the way. 

In July, La Luna suggests that you give whatever's dragging you down the flick. So that by August, you're ready for a more supportive group of friends, a lovelier relationship or a more fulfilling (and lucrative) job. 

As the black sheep of the zodiac, Aquarius doesn’t give a hoot what anyone else says about them. They think for themselves and do what they feel in their bones is the right thing to do. Be like that.

For more, visit: www.astrotash.com

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer.

3 Things that got me through some of the darkest times in my life.

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We have all had them, dark times. Moments when it’s hard to get out of bed, when we question those around us, when we question ourselves and look in the mirror with uncertainty.

I wish that I could say that I have only had these moments a few times in my life but I would be lying. I have had some serious dark times in my life and they have taught me so much. Just like we have light and positivity, there is negativity and darkness. They both coexist to make life and matter what it is.

I used to spend a lot of my life running away from darkness but the older and stronger that I get, I now face it head on because I have seen that instead of dancing around it, we must overcome it to build character. And, once we do, we walk taller, we feel stronger and it shapes us.

Here are 3 things that got me through some of the darkest times of my life:

1. Divine intervention.

I have always believed in God. Not the God that makes us conform to a specific religion but the masculine energy of creation that is the source of love, light and abundance. The complement to Mother Nature. They coexist to make The Universe.

Even though I always believed in God, I have not always had physical proof but times when I need it the most, The Creator showed up for me. An example of this is when I was in a toxic relationship where we would drink a lot together. One night, I got so drunk that I forgot I had spent my last cash on drinks but my check from work was about to clear the next day.

Even though I offered to pay him the next day and he could hold onto my passport in the meantime, the taxi-driver started yelling at me and called the police, I was crying and mortified. Out of nowhere in the distance, I saw three people in the shadows. They looked like angels in the light. As they came closer to the cab, their first question was why I was crying and I was taken aback that strangers could see how harsh I was being treated but we’re still so kind to me.They proceeded to pay my cab fare, I thanked them and then I walked a block home.

On the way to my apartment, I was shook about what just happened and I took a moment to take it in. I wondered what had just occurred and had witnessed the power of The Divine that I had always believed in. This loving force didn’t judge me, didn’t tell me I was a mess, this love didn’t tell me that I could do better but gently supported me in the right direction.

I felt God’s love so strongly and it nudged me in the right direction, the day afterwards I signed up for a thirty-day hot yoga challenge and quit drinking for three years.

2. Strangers

This may sound odd but although I have loving people in my life, now more than ever. Some of the most sincere exchanges have been with strangers.

When I moved back to New York as an adult, I used to work a café in The Lower East and met all walks of life. I would meet people traveling through, come across actors and producers who were filming, artists who had shows coming up and warm and friendly neighborhood folks.

Even though I hardly made any money, I learned to love and appreciate people. There was not one day that a story or person didn’t put a smile on my face. I had the fortune of experiencing true and genuine kindness from people who didn’t want anything from me but a genuine exchange.

3. Understanding that health is important.

I don’t remember a time in my childhood until early adulthood when I wasn’t on a diet, not eating or bulimic. I suffered from a serious eating disorder. Something that I learned from The Matriarchs in my family. It was instilled in me that my weight and size determined how far I get in life.

I am now an advocate for health. But, back then I wasn’t. I remember having fainting spells, people asking me if I ate and still feeling fat. One of the moments when I woke up from this spell of needing to be very thin was when I was in a modeling competition and one of my competitors asked me if I ate, I lied to her and said yes. I then asked her why she asked me that and she said that my thigh was half of hers. I didn’t believe her and told her that that was impossible. She asked us to compare in the mirror and I saw in the reflection that my thigh was half the size of hers. I couldn’t believe it.

I had thought that I was fat and was overly exercising, not eating and would throw up my food but was not satisfied until that comparison. I’m not sure if my competitor knows this but I think she saved my life. Although my food issues would resurface later, at that moment I saw how I had made my fatness up in my head. Once I could clearly see it, it made recovery (not easy) but a lot easier.

3 ways that we can heal The Matriarchy.

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We often hear the negativities of living in a ‘Patriarchy’, I would however argue that The Matriarchy is just as responsible for a lot of the issues that we have today.

It’s time to bring balance and equilibrium into our bodies, minds and hearts. That requires holding both The Matriarchy and Patriarchy responsible for the issues in our families and society.

For a few decades, we have not held women accountable because of the past. We are told that females went through a lot in history, which we did. I am very proud of the feminine ancestors that came before us but now it’s time for us to do our part.

Here are 3 ways that we can The Matriarchy:

1. Stop hating men.

I had a mentor who used to say negativity is more powerful than positivity and unfortunately, he was right. You see, we often align ourselves with people who have a common enemy to us and will unite with those who are enemies with our enemy.

It may not come from a bad place to want to bring someone who has hurt us down and band together with others who wish the same but it is a form of negativity. And, when we develop relationships based on hate, it will manifest itself in the relationship itself one day.

Unfortunately, this has become the trend with many women that I see. I was one of them. There is a collective energy amongst us to hate men and not welcome them in because of the past.

As the saying goes, what we hate controls us. And, how can we expect to have healthy relationships with men when we speak negatively of them and deny their strength in masculinity. I can say today that there are way more men getting it right than wrong, we need to acknowledge this.

2. Support one another.

I grew up in a household with many females and went to an all-girl school for most of my life. While I have made some lifelong friendships, most of my interactions with other girls and women have been hurtful, mean and shallow.

I used to think this was a reflection of me and that could very well be true. So, I include myself in saying that we all need to be more supportive of women.

Last Summer when it was trending to support other women on Instagram and Facebook, I was stunned at how some of the tags were from people who didn’t even care to check up on me during the pandemic so, were they really supportive?

Support is more than a like or picture on Instagram, it is meant to be genuine and we can all do better with this. Instead of criticizing another women for how she looks, maybe ask her how she is doing today. She is human after all.

3. Access our internal feminine divinity.

When I decided to embark on the journey of abundance, I found out so much about myself. Mostly that I had been faking real support for other women because I hadn’t been honest with myself.

I remember being in a yoga class where another yogi was asked to demonstrate a posture and I felt a deep sense of jealousy burn my chest. I was so shocked that I had that in me. I then went on to discover that I had been living in limitations that if someone else had it (especially a woman) then I couldn’t have it. This is the opposite of abundance. Now I look at it as though, if they can so can I. There is more than enough for all of us.

Other women can succeed and I want them to because that means so can I. We can support one another and compete healthily to be better versions of ourselves. No one has to lose out for me to win or feel better about myself.

‘What does home mean to you?’ New Moon in Cancer by Astrologer, Natasha Weber.

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NEW MOON IN CANCER

SYDNEY: 11:17 am, July 10th

NEW YORK: 9:17 pm, July 9th

LONDON: 2:17 am, July 10th

LOS ANGELES: 6:17 pm, July 9th

What does home mean to you? Is it a place, a feeling or a person? As July’s new Moon begins its cycle in Cancer, these questions may poke your heart.

For some, this new Moon inspires you to create a more comfortable living space. You’ll be drawn to decorating with sumptuous fabrics, filling vases with fresh flowers and adding special mementos to your mantle. There’s a cosmic focus on making your house a home. Because a place where you can retreat from life’s stresses should never be underestimated.

Others may be separated from their home during this new Moon. Let’s not forget that many people across the globe are currently stuck in a different state or country, unable to return to their homes and families. So, expect to hear more about this in the media. 

Cancer Sun, Moon and Ascendant signs will feel this new Moon's message most acutely. The same can be said for Capricorns, Aries and Libras. 

For the rest of you, what house does Cancer rule in your birth chart? This is the area where you’ll search for a sense of belonging, looking to fit in and be accepted for who you are. For you, this new Moon is about discovering the type of unconditional love where your uniqueness is embraced with open arms. For example, if Cancer rules your eleventh house, your friends' acceptance may come up for you. The eighth house points to resolving trust issues to create more intimacy. The tenth house suggests finding a workplace where you can fully express your talents without ridicule. 

La Luna asks that you manifest a space to call home. To you, this might be somewhere you can kick off your shoes at the end of the day, put on your trackies and relax. Maybehome is that one special person that loves you, warts and all. Or perhaps it’s a group or organisation that encourages your originality to shine.

Once you’ve found your tribe, your person or space where you can be the uncensored version of yourself, then you know you’ve truly arrived home.

For more, visit: www.astrotash.com

About Natasha Weber, the author:

Astrotash, Natasha Weber PMAAAC, MAFA

A self-confessed astrology nerd, Astrotash is the resident astrologer for myBody+Soul,Australia’s #1 health and wellness site. She writes horoscopes for Mamamia and has presented on radio and podcast shows, such as Sivana and Healthy-ish. Astrotash has appeared on Sunrise morning show and is also a guest speaker at the Soul Star Festival.

Motivated to build a bridge between sun-sign columns and the ancient science behind our celestial movements, Astrotash aims to bring deeper personal awareness through the lens of astrology. When she’s not reading the stars, you’ll find her in downward dog, ‘earthing’ in the Australian bush or dancing up a storm at Zumba.

Astrotash is accredited by the Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology and a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. Her articles have appeared inThought Catalogue, Out of Office New Yorkand Today’s Astrologer, in addition to international publications across the globe. She continues to research, present and publish, and is an active member of the following astrological organisations:

•          Australian Academy of Astrology and Cosmobiology

•          American Federation of Astrologers

•          Federation of Australian Astrologer.

9 Inspirational quotes by Dr. Wayne Dyer.

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There has not been a more influential teacher in my life than Dr. Wayne Dyer. His embodiment of the divine masculinity has moved me and helped me grow and evolve.

Every other morning, I listen to his abundance meditation or words of wisdom on repeat. It helps me think of the greater source, God and how grateful I am to be alive.

Although he has passed on, his work will always remain.

Here are 9 quotes from Dr. Wayne Dyer that I hope resonate with you:

1. ‘There are only two emotions - Fear and Love. Go with Love.’

2. ‘If you believe it will work out , you'll see opportunities. If you believe it won't you will see obstacles.’

3. ‘ Self-esteem comes from the self, not from acquisitions and
approval.’

4. ‘ If you blame others for something that happens in your life, then you must wait until they change in order to get better.’

5. ‘ Heaven on Earth is a choice you must make, not a place you must find.’

6. ‘Friends are God’s way of apologizing for your family.’

7. ‘When you judge another, you do not define them. You define you.’

8. ‘Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.’

9. ‘I am realistic. I expect miracles.’

References: AZ Quotes and Everyday power.