’Lives fall apart when they need to be rebuilt.’- Iyanla Vanzant.
What it took to get to me- August 2020
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What it took to get to me- August 2020
It took me accepting God’s will
To get to me
It took me forgiving my Parents
To get to me
It took me healing my inner-child
To get to me
It took me releasing the need to impose my opinion on others
To get to me
It took me being still
To get to me
It took me embracing my Soul family
To get to me
It took me understanding that happiness is a practice
To get to me
It took me appreciating Divine Masculinity
To get to me
It took me allowing myself to be lead
To get to me
It took me giving up the idea that I know everything
To get to me
9 Reasons why I forgive my Mother.
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We spend a lot of emphasis, as a society, on forgiving our Father’s; however, little on forgiveness towards our Mother’s. I am not here to write something hateful but a piece that is truthful. Truth is love.
I would be lying if I said that I felt completely supported and loved by Mother but it has taken me maturing to understand that how she loved me and raised me is between her and God.
Through forgiveness, I can let go of the direct and indirect pain caused by her towards me as a child so that I can discontinue the hurt that was created.
Mother’s are human and just like other humans, they deserve forgiveness, too.
Here are 9 Reasons I forgive my Mother:
1. I forgive her because she knew not what did/ does.
2. I forgive her because I choose to love her from a distance.
3. I forgive her because even though how I was raised created trauma; it was intended that way so that I could heal from it and help others do the same.
4. I forgive her because I have the real power over my life.
5. I forgive her because I can’t hold her hostage for the rest of my life for past wrongdoing.
6. I forgive her because there is enough hate in the world already.
7. I forgive her because my healing is my responsibility.
8. I forgive her because hating her will only affect me.
9. I forgive her because I deserve true and love peace within my heart.
9 Affirmations to stabilize Empaths.
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If you are unfamiliar with the terminology of an a Empath, I recommend bringing yourself up to speed with my past articles to figure out whether you are or not. In Lehman’s terms, an Empath is someone who feels deeply and, as a result, can create blockages in their life or future because of how harsh the world can be sometimes.
Due to these reasons, Empaths need emotional and spiritual stability that can come through prayer, meditation and affirmations.
Here are 9 affirmations to stabilize and restore Empaths (recommendation is to put one hand on your heart as you are saying them out loud, repeat a few times):
1. I am light.
2. I am connected to God.
3. I am in alignment with abundance.
4. I am worthy of receiving.
5. I give and receive simultaneously.
6. I am at peace with what God has planned for me.
7. I can inspire others but cannot fix anyone.
8. I am allowed to feel.
9. Emotions move through me but don’t define me.
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